Triangle Discussion

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Zelda posted 01-08-2001 21:50 EST (US)
Here's the place to discuss this week's Buffy episode.
Warduke_1 posted 01-08-2001 22:18 EST (US)
Well I just watched Triangle, it was a great ep, here are a few quick notes…
- The scene with Spike and the dummy is hilarious, he ends up hitting it over the head with the box of chocolates while yelling YOU UNGRATEFUL BITCH!…LOL
- Tara’s hair is blonder which doesn’t bother me either way, she still gorgeous.
- Spike’s face when he cops a feel on Buffy…LOL
- Tara says that she is allergic to shrimp, it’s always good when we find something out concerning our girls…hehe
- And finally the “Hello…Gay now!” line, Oh yes it’s there and at the end Anya calls Willow gay

A great ep, you guys will love it, the Willow/Anya bickering is FUNNY, well I have to go...watch it again


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BBOvenGuy posted 01-08-2001 23:18 EST (US)
Okay, I haven't seen the ep yet, but I saw the crack videos and read the closed captioning, and I must say I think the "Hello, gay now!" line looks like it really works. After all this time, Joss has finally come out (pun only half-intended) and let Willow say who she is, and he's done it in a very Buffy way - quickly, humorously and in the midst of supernatural calamity.

Now maybe they can finally sneak a kiss past the censors and get that issue laid to rest as well.

Zelda posted 01-08-2001 23:33 EST (US)
I'm not so convinced about the censor thing anymore.
BBOvenGuy posted 01-08-2001 23:39 EST (US)
Actually, I wouldn't be surprised if there was some hesitation on Joss's part, too. If the WB needs Buffy as much as it says it does sometimes, Joss would be able to push anything he wanted past them if he really wanted to. Perhaps previously he was at a point where he didn't feel comfortable enough to make that push.

However, everything is a process. For a long time Joss didn't want to "label the relationship." Now he has. Perhaps the kiss is just a matter of him getting comfortable with the idea. Or perhaps he's just waiting for the appropriate way to do it. Or both.

Since none of us is inside Joss Whedon's head (at least as far as we know... ), we can't really know for certain. I'm willing to be patient with him, though. To me, the relationship isn't hanging on whether or not we ever see a kiss.

tyche posted 01-09-2001 07:34 EST (US)
quote:

- Tara says that she is allergic to shrimp


Well, I reckon that wrecks her chances with Anya, then...

[This message has been edited by tyche (edited January 09, 2001).]

xita posted 01-09-2001 10:27 EST (US)
From Ain't it cool news!


WHAT?S IT CALLED?

?Triangle.?
WHO?S RESPONSIBLE?

Jane Esperson, who authored what is probably the funniest ?Buffy? this season, the Xander-duplicating yarn ?The Replacement.?
WHAT DOES TV GUIDE SAY?

?Buffy?s post-Riley emotional turmoil is interrupted by a malevolent troll accidentally set loose on Sunnydale by Anya and Willow.?
ANY GOOD?

Yes. It?s a very funny one, with loads of laugh-provoking Willow and Anya dialogue. Also amusing is the aforementioned ?troll? (portrayed by Abraham Benrubi -- you?ll remember him as Jerry the hulking admissions clerk on ?ER?), who comes off as an amusingly ill-mannered monster Viking. (He carries a Thor-evoking giant hammer, but his horns are in his head instead of his helmet.) He?s the kind of oafish barbarian who?ll fling an enormous dumpster across the street and declare, ?Ha ha ha ha ha ha! Puny receptacle!!? Benrubi does a superior job.
WHY MIGHT THIS EPISODE BE QUASI-HISTORIC?

I believe tonight marks the first time since the premiere of ?Angel? that a new ?Buffy? was not immediately followed by a new ?Angel.?
THE BIG NEWS?

Rupert Giles spends most of the episode on a three-day trip visiting the libraries of the Watchers Council, looking for clues about Glory, Dawn, and so on. If memory serves, this is the first time Giles has visited the Council since they booted him out in season three.
IS RILEY FINN REALLY GONE?

Really most completely gone. And, as anticipated, Marc Blucas is absent from the opening titles.
DOES AMBER BENSON GET THE MARC BLUCAS SPOT IN THE TITLES?

Sadly, she does not. Tara?s alter-ego remains confined to the realm of semi-regular.
IS BUFFY?S MOM REALLY ALL BETTER?

Seemingly. Joyce Summers appears fully healthy and normal again, and is even spotted wearing something besides a bathrobe.
DOES DAWN MANIFEST ANY SUPERPOWERS?

No.
IS XANDER MADE A JUNIOR WATCHER?

No.
ANY SIGN OF GLORY, BEN OR DREG?

Nope. The off-screen Glory, however, still has everybody pretty jumpy.
ANYTHING NEW ON SPIKE?

He seems dazed and frustrated by the fact that, despite Riley?s sudden departure, Buffy still hates him. When the troll shows up at the Bronze, Spike gets off a funny line involving a menu item.
HOW?S IT END? (MAJOR SPOILER HERE)

Dawn overhears Buffy, Giles and Joyce discussing Dawn?s otherworldly origins. Executive Producer Joss Whedon.
HERC, DIDN?T YOU SAY LAST TIME THAT YOU HAD THEORIES ON WHERE BUFFY IS HEADED THIS SEASON?

I did, but claim no special knowledge beyond having seen 5.10. Here?s what I jotted down (but did not post for fear of over-spoiling) at the conclusion of 5.10. I offer this only to quell the enormous number of e-mails requesting it. My admittedly unimpressive theories:

Buffy will fall for Ben the Evil Intern.

Ben will use Buffy in his quest to exploit Dawn.

Giles will reunite with the Watcher's Council.

Xander will become a junior watcher.

The Council will betray Buffy.

Riley will unexpectedly return in the finale and team with Spike to save Buffy from Ben.

Riley will die in the attempt.

Herc will be lucky if 50 percent of this proves true.
NEXT ON ?BUFFY?:

More reruns. Then the slayer turns 20!
WHAT ELSE?

According to WB Entertainment president Susanne Daniels at the Television Critics Assn. winter press tour (as reported in Monday?s Hollywood Reporter): ?There isn't a drama on our current schedule that we want to cancel.? As a result, Daniels said, the premiere of the one-hour drama ?Dead Last? has been bumped to next autumn.
HERC?S RATING FOR ?BUFFY THE VAMPIRE SLAYER? 5.11?

***1/2
The Hercules T. Strong Rating System:

**** better than most motion pictures

*** actually worth your valuable time

** as horrible as most stuff on TV

* makes you quietly pray for bulletins

I will pillage your lands and dwellings!! I will burn your crops and make merry sport with your more attractive daughters!!

TyRex316 posted 01-09-2001 21:37 EST (US)
O'kay-this ep was hilarious. And you have to watch it twice just to see all of the looks that say more than a 100 of pages of script. Tara's 'oh,dear' as Buffy was breaking down was so Giles-like. And then her look as Buffy hugged her. Amber was great this ep and I am wondering how, when and where she and Buffy got so close. Great to hear they actually share a class.
Spring posted 01-09-2001 21:47 EST (US)
I like the closeness in this ep. It was like finding a waterfall in the desert. There was Amber! And she talked! And Willow! And Anya! Xander! Buffy being pathetic! It was nice. And free of the stupid melodrama for once. This ep was light as air, soooo nice.

But I have to comment, what the fuh were they thinking with all that makeup? Everyone's hair and makeup was like completely insane. Tara's air, still reddish. Willow's curly thing. Buffy wavy at the ends, straight on the top. Eh?
And Tara's blue eyeshadow and pink lips? Oh my.

april posted 01-09-2001 21:57 EST (US)
woo and hoo! okay, i must say that i loved this ep.

this is my "analysis with a heavy focus on tara":

my very favorite line, even eclipsing "hello, gay now!", was when buffy and tara enter the decimated and empty magic shop, and tara runs up to buffy saying "buffy, something's been here and willow's gone!" with the most worried look on her face. so cute! you can just *see* on her face how much she loves willow and how concerned she is.

willow's powers in this ep are truly awesome, as well. when she made the cash register disappear and floated all of those things in the magic shop? wow! i must say, though, i'm a bit worried. willow is starting to get bery nonchalant (sp?) with the way she throws around spells. the troll was bad enough - if she doesn't watch it, she could do something seriously bad.

speaking of, why aren't we seeing her and tara doing spells together anymore? come to think of it, why aren't we seeing tara doing magic at *all* this season? have we seen it even once, other than the blind cadria spell during "family"?

and this leads me into my biggest problem with this ep: tara was lame! throughout the whole final scene in the magic shop, every single other scoobie does something to try and fight the troll - xander tries valiently to attack him, buffy works her slayer mojo, anya bravely tries to distract him and willow is casting spells as fast as she can. what is tara doing? cowering in the corner, as far as i can tell. she doesn't try to help willow (or even run over to her to see if she's okay), she doesn't try to cast a spell of her own, she doesn't even *say* anything.

now i'm sorry, the tara that cast a smoke spell when she was chased by a demon last season, the tara that was worried sick about her willow a few scenes before, that tara would *not* stand idly by while a troll threatened her friends and her girlfriend! jane, jane, what sort of writing is that? i sincerely hope that the shooting script will reveal that tara did try to do something, but it had to be cut because of time.

this tara was also much more shy than we've seen her in a while. maybe she's only not shy around willow, because we saw a much more confident, articulate tara during the rooftop scene in the last taraful ep. but i don't mind her shyness, really. especially in the scene where she buffy hug, her shyness is adorable.

and i'm so glad that they let anya talk about shellfish again, and that we got to find out tara's allergic to shrimp. that was a cute addition.

also, i was very happy to see the buffy/tara bonding. i thought it was great during the scene in the bronze when buffy sent xander off to look for the troll and willow and anya to the magic shop, but kept tara with her. i think she liked having tara as a sidekick.

what else? poor spike...he's really in for it now...head over heels...

and i loved xander's line at the beginning "i hardly remember that riley's gone!". sorry riley fans, but i totally agree.

buffy was oddly melodramatic tonight, no? i know that she was being all cheesy on purpose, but what was up with that? at least we finally get to see her in something that's not ultra-serious slayer mode.

oh, back to tara for a sec (lol): way to go tara, taking xander's cue to leave the magic shop and not get drawn into willow and anya's fight! she's very perceptive about interpersonal things. i hope we get to see more of that from her.

hello gay now was great. i also loved when anya said to xander "and willow's not going to steal you, because she's gay!", and willow just sort of shrugged at him. hee hee...i have been waiting for a moment like this on tv for a long time. willow has a sexuality! there must be a lot of people freaking out right now.

what do i want to see most in future eps? (other than that damn kiss) let's see willow and tara do some kick ass magic together! willow is clearly really powerful now, and i know tara has more for us to see. they need to do something that really shakes things up.

okay, i'm sure there are tons of things i've forgotten to say, but i'll let someone else have a turn now.

what a great ep! much woo, and even more hoo!

edited to add one more gripe: the scene in the beginning where buffy and dawn talk on and on about riley was almost too painfully melodramatic to watch. could they have said the same things over again one more time? the scooby scene in the magic shop after that was like a breath of fresh air.

[This message has been edited by april (edited January 09, 2001).]

darvangi posted 01-09-2001 22:09 EST (US)
Let me start off by saying how refreshing it was to see Buffy get to be funny and cute and likeable in a lighthearted episode in the wake of all the morose seriousness of the last few. Now that the surgery is over and Riley has finally put an end to their strained relationship, Buffy can be fun again and Sarah looked like she was really enjoying it.

Seriously, about 45 minutes into this ep I was almost convinced it was a stinker, but by the end I realized that it was just the middle part with the Troll that was bad. There were some scenes that looked like the director was having trouble getting the appropriate performances out of the actors, and their interactions were kind of goofy. What really made the ep come through all right for me were the great scenes at the beginning and the end with Buffy and Tara and Buffy and Giles. There was some incredibly sweet stuff there.

I thought Buffy's scenes of crying about X/A were hilarious. They were going for a very girlish look for her with the lack of heavy colors in her eye shadow and the ponytails and the loose-fitting clothes. This look worked for me with this post-Riley story. I thought that was very clever.

Its a shame that the "gay now" line happened during one of the weaker scenes, but I was able to enjoy the line later on Anya had, saying "she's gay" - that was so cool. They said it. Willow is gay. Holy crap. I give it a big thumbs up even with the weak scenes in the middle.

Spring posted 01-09-2001 22:10 EST (US)
Tara was a bit lame in the fight scene. But I remember hearing someone scream "Stay back Tara!!", and I immediately thought, well looks like Tara's gonna be staying back for this sequence. Lame but whatever. I take what I can get.
It was also great to see them mix up all the scoobies, tara with buffy, willow with anya, xander with spike. Love that. Love them. More please.
W/T were also lame at the end when Anya and Xander were hugging each other for comfort while Tara and Willow weren't even touching. Though they might've been holding onto each other's fingers out of the frame. Still, if it was my girlfriend who almost got killed, I would've glommed onto her right after. Stroking her hair, rubbing her back....well doing what Anya and Xander were doing to each other.
But the gay line was perfect. I've been waiting for that for a long as the kiss, maybe even longer. That made me very, very happy.

Editing to respond to April:
I was thinking the SAME THING about that stupid conversation between Buffy and Dawn about Riley. When I saw all the Willow, Anya, Tara interaction in the beginning I got all excited, then they had the Dawn/Buffy scene and I was so bored. And then I said that mantra that I've been saying most of this season "Spring, it's not the Willow and Tara show, it's the Buffy show. It's all about Buffy." So when that was over and we moved on, I was so f***ing relieved!! Halle-freakin-lujah! I was like getting a wish granted.

[This message has been edited by Spring (edited January 09, 2001).]

gogirrrr posted 01-09-2001 22:14 EST (US)
What a wonderful eps....I agree with everything that has been stated so far. Since I picked up on BTVS with the advent of Willow and Tara, I believe that this was my very first non-Riley episode. And I must say, I can't believe how much precious dialogue was wasted on/by Riley.

How wonderful it was to see screen pairings that lately have been seldom tried: Buffy/Tara, Willow/Anya & Xander/Spike. Spring, you're right! The eps was "light as air."

One complaint tho' I was a tad upset on how Buffy went on and on and on about Xander and Anya's love and zip, nothing, nada about Willow and Tara's. I know the troll specifically mentioned X/A's love but after all that happened, Willow was in as much danger as Anya........no acknowledement whatsoever. And you're right, April, no W/T hugs/kisses.

I guess I should just be happy with the "Hello, GAY now" line, which was sooooo incredibly cute.

So looking forward to the next Riley-less eps,
kate

edited for spelling

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Roxton posted 01-09-2001 22:20 EST (US)
Some initial thoughts on Triangle. I really enjoyed this episode. It was so nice to finally have one where we see the Scoobies as a team once again. Plus there were some great one-liners. What really added to it were the facial expressions of the characters during the various scenes. The best I thought was the look on Tara's face when she found out that Anya was once Olaf's girlfriend. That was priceless.

I have to agree with April, I did find it strange that Tara didn't help Willow while she was trying to cast the spell during the final scene in the magic shop. In fact it was strange that Buffy sent Willow and Anya to the Magic Shop to prepare the spell instead of Willow and Tara. The only reason I can think of is that it allowed for the episode to focus more on what was happening between Willow and Anya.

Finally I have to say I thought both Willow and Tara looked great to-night. I like the new look Willow.

[This message has been edited by Roxton (edited January 09, 2001).]

Warduke posted 01-09-2001 22:59 EST (US)
Last time I posted, I said what I liked about this ep, now let’s talk about what I didn’t like (which is mostly stuff you guys have already mentioned)

Tara running to Buffy telling her that something was there and that Willow’s gone (loved that scene, Tara was so worried) but then when Buffy and her arrive at the Bronze, Tara looks at Willow and that’s it, no hug, no nothing, they could have had them hug at least

And Tara not helping Willow with a spell to get rid of the troll…I guess the writers wanted to concentrate on W/A.

As for Tara not helping at the end, when she walks in, Willow yells out “Stay back Tara”…so that’s why she didn’t help

And finally at the end, all the hugs and stuff from X/A and NOTHING from W/T and Buffy could have at least looked at them when she was talking about love but we did get the “Hello, Gay now!” line

[This message has been edited by Warduke (edited January 09, 2001).]

eekiboo posted 01-09-2001 23:01 EST (US)
this was a fun ep. the over-all impact was sensational to me. excellent!

good points:

1. "HELLO, GAY NOW!"of course everybody'll love this quote fr Willow after watching it. the word "gay" has been said. alleluia! i can't recall them ever saying "gay" b4 esp. in S4, and they basically say "doing the wicca thing" or "the whole wicca thing" or "witch stuff" instead of saying 'gay' out loud. so Willow admitted it finally! and Anya too! yay! extra points for this!

2. loved Buffy and Tara talking abt normal stuff like school AND the Buffster letting it all out over Tara's shoulders re: Riley... and Tara seemed supportive and quite didn't know what to do with Buffy crying all over her... cute.

3. the Anya and Willow squabble. i know it has been going on since a few eps back that Anya and Willow don't really get along and this ep has proven it and squandered on the topic, in a good way of course.

4. Xander's decision to choose neither Anya nor Willow when the troll was asking him to. he obviously loves both and would suffer intently rather than give up on them. very heroic indeed! you go Xander! his hand must've hurt...ouch...!

5. Spike doing the rt thing by helping the wounded expecting Buffy would be touched but instead telling him just the opposite. ouch! now that's one confused Spike for ya! heh.heh.

6. Dawn and Buffy talking abt the hurt and pain. reminds me of me and my sis. sisters do talk like that and it was captured in such a very well-detailed and familiar manner. loved it. plus Dawn heard what they were talking abt in the end scene. altho' she hasn't heard much, she knows she is somehow involved. what will be her reaction? will she be aloof? will she confront Buffy? will she write her thoughts again in her journal? or tell the others (maybe Tara?) we'll see what happens.

7. Tara worried that Willow's missing. and Buffy assuring her "we'll find her..." or something of that sort. yeah!

8. Tara's "cool" hair. love it more than she was a blondie.

ok, that's all i can remember rt now. now to the bad points:

1. Willow's new 'do. don't like. sorry. like the straight hair better.

2. ok, we all know Tara is NOT into "violence" but she could have helped Willow cast the reverse spell for the troll instead of just watching the whole rumble or even a "can i help with the spells?" would have sufficed.

3. the troll. aren't trolls supposed to small? coz i have these british comic mags fr way back and there are trolls there but they are tiny. course, we can't have tiny trolls running around coz Buffy won't be fighting 'em, she'll just squash 'em and what's the story in that? oh well. atleast the face under the mask looked familiar... paging ER! who let the dog out? he seemed just one of the 'we-can-beat-u-anytime' monsters of the wk. duh?

4. u can definitely tell it was SMG’s stunt double in one of the fight scenes.

sorry, way tooo long. but i just had to comment after watching it freshly two hrs ago. this is an ep worth watching more than once! this is the end. back to the short posts... heh.heh. peace

Rayne posted 01-09-2001 23:10 EST (US)
quote:
Originally posted by gogirrrr:
One complaint tho' I was a tad upset on how Buffy went on and on and on about Zander and Anya's love and zip, nothing, nada about Willow and Tara's.

When I read the script, I thought Buffy's crying jag at the end was supposed to include both couples, but it didn't come across that way in the actual episode. Here's what it said:

BUFFY
There, see how nice things worked
out? And look at you guys...
(looking at Xander and Anya)
So good and alive and together.

She starts to cry.

BUFFY
(looking at Willow and Tara)
So together... and good... and alive...

Everyone looks uncomfortable as Buffy cries harder.

BUFFY
I'm just so... happy for you!

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I'll be posting the complete script in the morning.

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Rayne
The Buffy Shooting Script Site

gogirrrr posted 01-09-2001 23:34 EST (US)
Hmmmm...curious....I wonder why the change not to include W/T in Buffy's couple/love gushing. A change made by SMG? Would she do that? How about a change to appease the censors again....but that doesn't make sense either considering the big "Hey, gay, now" and Anya's gay line.......the exclusion of acknowledging w/t's love in that scene just does not work -- oh vey!

kate

Rayne posted 01-09-2001 23:39 EST (US)
quote:
Originally posted by gogirrrr:
Hmmmm...curious....I wonder why the change not to include W/T in Buffy's couple/love gushing

I think the director just didn't get that point across (I think it was a new guy). They did flash to Tara and Willow, but it didn't feel like Buffy was referring to them as well. So I'd chalk it up to bad direction for that scene.

Gudanov posted 01-09-2001 23:52 EST (US)
Anyone else bothered by the fact that Anya was driving a car for the first time when she actually HAD a car in GDII?

The focus couple was X/A so I think that was the reason why there were those odd W/T moments everyone is pointing out. Tara was sort of neglected as the episode went on. Somehow I think X/A angst in on the horizon, the last two episodes feel like a setup.

illya2 posted 01-09-2001 23:56 EST (US)
ZAP! That was a good episode. April you are amazing. I was reading your post and by the time I was finished I was thinking you'd said it all. I don't need to post. I'm gonna stop thinking. I'm just gonna read April posts to get my thoughts. Hey everybody, "WHAT APRIL SAID!

But maybe a couple thoughts of my own...
Yeah I wasn't too nuts about Willow's hair either. But I LOVED that choker. Willowneck is SUCH good neck. Imagine the tip of your tongue playing along its texture... never wanted to be a choker before.

My favorite line: "Puny receptacles!" Of course it could be taken any number of ways but it was the funniest thing I've ever heard a troll utter. And by the way I loved whatsisname Benrobi as the troll. He hadda be one of the best villains ever. Cracked me up with his talk of ale and mead and such.

And last I gotta agree that when Tara came running out of the back room all concerned for willow I got all goosepimply and made these moaning sounds and the guy I was watching with sorta looked all puzzed out at me. (snicker)
happy W/T love to all -Ill

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"A watcher scoffs at gravity" - Giles

xita posted 01-10-2001 12:13 EST (US)
Ok, want to get some points across quickly.

I did feel Buffy was referring to both couples there at the end and I do believe SMG looked their way. And this I caught even though I expected Buffy's gushing to be all about x/a. So I will concurr and say it was bad direction.

I also think Tara stayed away because Willow told her not get close. Willow's taking care of her. Yes, it was a bit odd that there wasn't a hug or something, oh well. And I think that even in the beginning Tara is staying away from Willow's magical exploration. Either she can't keep up, or she is concerned about the effects this could have. I think it's a bit of both.

More, who thinks it was Tara that pointed out to Willow that her note taking was kind of insane, I liked that bit very much, with Tara saying it was quirky. I thought the Troll had some great lines as well, I'll pick them up on second viewing.

Hmm Willow hair, I liked it a lot more than I thought it would. And Buffy and Tara have a cool little comraderie thing. I liked all the interaction.

Ok more later.

newmoon07 posted 01-10-2001 12:15 EST (US)
I thought the episode was hilarious as well. On the topic of Willow/Tara though--i wasn't too thrilled with the treatment of Tara's character. I felt as if she was a background statue most of the time. Eventhough Anya and Xander were to be the focus couple, there could've at least been somewhat REALISTIC portrayal of "couplehood" between W/T. I mean all this chaos goes on, Tara is obviously concerned about Willow--BUT--not once was there even a slight touch,hug, or "ARE YOU O.K.??" My god, I think there was closer contact between Spike and the victims than between W/T. Despite these cynical points--the ep WAS great!
Rayne posted 01-10-2001 12:25 EST (US)
quote:
Originally posted by newmoon07:
I mean all this chaos goes on, Tara is obviously concerned about Willow--BUT--not once was there even a slight touch,hug, or "ARE YOU O.K.??"

Huh... this must have been cut as well:
Right after Willow wishes for a million dollars:

Tara goes immediately to Willow, hugs her.

TARA
(to Willow)
I'm so glad you're okay.

BUFFY
What's going on?...
**************

I do think this episode ran long though. There was a whole really funny scene with Giles, Willow and Anya that was cut... and Giles was cut completely out of the last scene in the magic box (he was supposed to be standing off to the side with Tara).

Did anyone notice how *long* the first act was? It didn't end until about 20-25 minutes after the hour!

Anyway, the script is up, and I'm going to bed.


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Rayne
The Buffy Shooting Script Site

BBOvenGuy posted 01-10-2001 12:35 EST (US)
I'm taking Xita's side defending the ep on two counts -

#1 - Willow did tell Tara to stay back when the fight started, and at that point Tara was pinned on the other side of the shop from Willow and Anya. What was she supposed to do? Do one of those weaving-running paths ducking blows and swinging hammers?

#2 - I also LOVED the bit with "I call it quirky" at the beginning. I'm surprised none of the wild feed folks caught it, because it's *such* a good W/T moment.

I'll have to rewatch episode to check the directing when Buffy's having her meltdown, but the camera was cutting to both Xander/Anya and Willow/Tara, so it could be inferred that Buffy meant both couples. On the other hand, since the troll had been saying Xander and Anya wouldn't last, it is somewhat logical that Buffy would be more concerned about them.

It's too bad that the hug got cut. The one thing that was really odd about this episode was the timing. The second act break didn't come until almost 8:40! Act three was barely there! What's up with that?

Oh, and one last thing - I think there were two reasons Buffy sent Willow and Anya back to the magic shop instead of Willow and Tara. First, Willow and Anya had been there when the troll was released in the first place. Second, Tara was busy. After Willow and Anya leave, we can clearly see Tara off to the side helping one of the injured folks.

Even though the timing was goofy, I still thought this was a great episode. One of the best in a really good year.

xita posted 01-10-2001 12:36 EST (US)
Thanks Rayne, you rock!

3 cheers for Rayne!

I knew something was missing in that scene. And you are most quick. GOd love ya.

Ok, I feel better. There did need to be a hug there and there was supposed to be one.

january_girl posted 01-10-2001 12:37 EST (US)
i laughed out loud at "hello, gay now!" and "and she's not going to try to break us up. because she's, y'know, gay and all". they actually said the word gay! *gasp*. progress. and so i guess this is saying that willow is gay, and not bi?
Utena posted 01-10-2001 12:48 EST (US)
Rayne i love you i love you i love you!

You have completed my night! I am so happy...its coming out of my bottom! *chuckles at her own lameness*

newmoon07 posted 01-10-2001 01:58 EST (US)
I forgot who said they like the "quirky" line by Tara--but i MUST say that Amber look especially good during that shot!
xita posted 01-10-2001 02:02 EST (US)
About Buffy only caring about X/A. I also thought that when Tara said, Willow's gone, Buffy's promises to get Willow back were also part of her mission this ep to save the couples.
BBOvenGuy posted 01-10-2001 02:06 EST (US)
Rayne, I think you're on to something about the director. I just got done with my third viewing and all the bothersome things go back to directing.

Take the scene where Buffy and Tara rush into the Bronze. The director would have been the one to shoot the scene with Willow playing out the million-dollars gag instead of having Tara hug her, yes? That's not how I would have done it at all. If they were that pressed for time, they should have cut the "just checking" line - it's such a cliche that the gag actually works better with the last line unsaid, because the audience members are all filling it in themselves anyway. A hug from Tara would have been more true to character and a better bang for the few seconds they had available.

The long first act also suggests that someone didn't know which gags to cut. I can understand - they're all great gags, but if having too many interferes with the flow of the story you've got to cut some of them.

Even having said that, though, I still think this was one of the best eps of the year.

By the way, has anyone noticed any net-ugliness over the "Hello, gay now!" line? There's been some grumbling on the USEnet, but there's always grumbling on the USEnet so I can't tell if it's anything special.

Anyalvr posted 01-10-2001 02:08 EST (US)
Okay, comments below:

1. How HOT was Emma in that beginning scene?
She's so gorgeous. I want screen caps.

2. I loved Anya's little "bomb" warning to
Xander - it was sweet in that weird, tactless way of hers.

3. Liked Tara in this episode. Socializing with Buffy is a good thing, and it was nice to see her interact with someone besides
Willow.

4. What about the beaming expression on Tara's face when Willow shared her 'Cat In The Hat' joke? How adorable!

5. I too, felt the acting/directing of the A/W fighting scenes sounded and felt stifled.

6. One of my favorite lines:

"I'm not stealing. I'm just taking things and not paying for them. In what twisted dictionary is that stealing?"

LOL!

7. The Buffy/Dawn bonding scene was sweet and hit the right notes, I felt. Not too morose or melodramatic but still handled the issue okay.

8. "I said it's the end of the world. Weren't you listening?"

9. Buffy going into a conniption fit over
X/A - especially with the crying scene with Tara - lame. I guess she doesn't want them to end up like she is, but still - it's better than her moping over Riley the entire episode.

10. Finally, Anya/Willow, and magic - Anya knows all too well what can happen when you use magic powers unwisely - something she's not invested in now, because she's focused
on being a human. Willow is skirting close to the edge of where Anya was - maybe she could learn a bit from her, eh?

There's a very small difference between them.
Anya allowed her heartbreak to let her become a demon, and Willow dangerously toyed with that, and came close to doing the same thing. It's kind of like a Faith/Buffy thing,
if you think about it. Which makes Willow kind of a hypocrite, if she's playing with
the edge there, if she's accusing Anya of using magic for her own purposes - because she came very close to doing it, too.

I don't expect them to go into depth on that one, though. Especially since Anya isn't remorseful, but she is invested in her life as a human, esp. Xander. It's just something
to think about.

If Anya goes bad in the future, or flirts with going bad -- it may be an issue for Willow.

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"I tried to be unlovable/why couldn't you do the same?"

-(jewel)

"Spank us 'til Tuesday! We promise to be bad if you do!"
-(drusilla, angel)

fell posted 01-10-2001 03:00 EST (US)
This episode was so totally awesome for so many reasons. I loved every minute of it. The feeling i got from it is that the season is starting to pull together. Tara has never seemed more like a full-fledged scoobie. Being emotional supporto-gal for Buffy means there's a personal relationship beyond their mutual connection with Willow. The episodes that focus on the Scoobie inter-relationships are always the best ones.

I love the arc they're doing with Spike. He's so funny.

Willow looked way cute. I just wish i hadn't been spoiled for her "gay now" line. I can only imagine what a trip that line would have been if i hadn't been expecting it. Spoiler ho no mo fo sho.

Is it just the power of suggestion or does Willow look like the cutest lesbian on the planet now? I like her hair a little curly if it's not long.

That's a good point about Willow turning down the same offer Anya accepted. That and their mutual protectiveness of Xander is the sort of synchronicity Joss loves.

Thank-you Rayne for the script notes. It seems that the parts that would have clarified and amplified Tara's role in some key scenes were the victims of editing for time. But for all the little annoyances and inconsistencies, they still manage to pack an amazing amount of great stuff into 40-some minutes.

Nouvelle posted 01-10-2001 09:27 EST (US)
My favorite scene was the one in which Spike picked up the box of candy he had dropped while fighting the Buffy figure. Watch how gently he places the candy back into the box. I just find that scene rather sweet.

drlloyd11 posted 01-10-2001 09:53 EST (US)
You were right Robert, another cut line...

quote:
Originally posted by BBOvenGuy:
Rayne, I think you're on to something about the director. I just got done with my third viewing and all the bothersome things go back to directing.

Take the scene where Buffy and Tara rush into the Bronze. The director would have been the one to shoot the scene with Willow playing out the million-dollars gag instead of having Tara hug her, yes? That's not how I would have done it at all. If they were that pressed for time, they should have cut the "just checking" line - it's such a cliche that the gag actually works better with the last line unsaid, because the audience members are all filling it in themselves anyway. A hug from Tara would have been more true to character and a better bang for the few seconds they had available.
Even having said that, though, I still think this was one of the best eps of the year.
special.


Tara goes immediately to Willow, hugs her.


TARA
(to Willow)
I'm so glad you're okay.


BUFFY
What's going on?
Where'd he come from?

Spring posted 01-10-2001 10:00 EST (US)
Should I be so paranoid to think that this isn't just bad directing but typical censor hacking?
xita posted 01-10-2001 10:02 EST (US)
So Buffy's little speech at the end. It's in the editing. In fact, I think she's looking at Willow and Tara when she says , you're together and good. Xander talks to her and she turns to her left. Then she's looking right when she says all that stuff. I think Willow and Tara are to her right. Too bad this couldn't be edited right.
christa monsta posted 01-10-2001 10:14 EST (US)
Well, everyone's done a great job of summarizing this super episode, but here's some other points:

1. argh! i thought we'd seen the end of buffy playing with dawn's hair. alas, twas not meant to be.

2. i felt like it took a little while to get into the rhythm of the show. it was a little weird going from the dialogue-heavy scenes with X/A and D/B, to the fast-moving scenes of the rest of the show.

3. loved when Xander corrected himself and said "i mean, my THREE favorite girls". yay! more tara inclusion!

4. loved the look tara gives when xander ducks behind her and says "protect me, tara!"

5. willow's impersonation of anya was pretty funny, and not too far off the mark, i thought.

6. i didn't mind the front of willow's hair, but the BACK! paging Shirley Temple!!

7. i'd also like to give a woo and hoo for the first troll scene, where willow seems almost to be holding anya!! watch it willow...you're supposed to be a one-woman woman! hee hee

8. tara's tank top - GOOD (did you see the little bit of shoulder? - yummy!)

9. tara's skirt - BAD (if you're gonna have the girl run...please, oh please give her some pants!) don't even get me started on the big bag she was carrying when she was with buffy.

10. loved buffy grabbing tara's hand to lead her off to find willow.

11. what's up with the poster for the "String Cheese Incident" when B/T come into the Bronze for the first time? wasn't that in another ep too (maybe NMR?)?

12. kudos not only to xander for not choosing one of the girls, but bigger kudos to anya for offering herself as a sacrifice!! that got a big "awwww" outta me!

13. although i hate to say it, i almost felt like willow was being WAY childish through the whole episode. it's like Anya was Superego to willow's Id (or do i have that backwards). i'm kind of scared to see where this overtly reckless behavior of willow's will lead us. WE NEED some more tara in the spells for control (i'm a firm believer that tara brings control to their spell relationship). could be wrong, though.

14. spoiler-free and staying that way! when i heard the "Gay now" line, i about fell outta my chair. holy cow!

oops, kinda long. sorry about that!
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T: "She is a whiz!"
W: "If ever a whiz there was..."
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BBOvenGuy posted 01-10-2001 10:19 EST (US)
I think it's bad directing and not censor editing.

I figured out a way to make the scene where Buffy and Tara charge into the Bronze work better, too. Check this out:

*****

WILLOW: I wish Buffy was here.

BUFFY ENTERS.

BUFFY (not hearing Willow): I'm here!

WILLOW (considers, then): I wish I had a million dollars!

TARA ENTERS, THEN IMMEDIATELY GOES TO WILLOW AND HUGS HER.

TARA: I'm so glad you're okay!

WILLOW (considers again, smiles): That'll work, too.

*****

Whaddya think? Should they hire me?

christa monsta posted 01-10-2001 10:22 EST (US)

Perfect, Robert! Move over Jane!
april posted 01-10-2001 10:37 EST (US)
yay bob! i like it better that way, too.

christa, i agree that watching this ep unspoiled was certainly a treat. well, almost unspoiled, anyway. other than what i saw from the trailer, i knew three things: a)"hello, gay now!" (which would have been great to see unspoiled) b) the fact that tara and buffy bond and c) that there was lots of tara

i thoroughly enjoyed watching all the other parts of the ep unfold without knowing about them beforehand. and although the writing (and editing) for tara left a bit to be desired, overall i thought that this ep had some of the best writing this season. it was packed with all the witty little lines that i'd been missing in earlier eps (can you say "into the woods", anyone?).

and i always love willow's lines. she has the best way of putting things. i'm so glad that with tara, she's finally found someone who understands her!

Utena posted 01-10-2001 11:00 EST (US)
Man Bob, you really fixed that scene up! Now how hard would it have been to really tape it that way? A couple more seconds is all it would have taken...and we would have gained yet another unforgettable W/T moment.

My newest favorite Tara moment came in this ep. "Buffy, somethings been here and Willow's gone!" Oh the pain and worry in her eyes...Amber is such a fabulous actress.
This ep really made me sit back and realize once again what a great group of actors and actresses we have on Buffy. No one has such a special individuality like Willow, every line she delivers has her distinct style in it and they play in my head for days afterward. In the scene with Dawn, I felt Buffys pain. Forget that I threw myself a party when Riley finally left, I could almost feel how sad Buff was. Go SMG with your Golden Globe nomination! I hope she wins. And Amber...that one line about Willow in the magic shop makes me just go "Wow, this gal is amazing."

This ep was so hilarious and wonderful overall, through my tears of laughter I was amazed at how much these people mean to me. The people and the characters alike. Hopefully someday I'll meet some of them so I can say exactly that.

Warduke posted 01-10-2001 11:17 EST (US)
Why is it that the script is ALWAYS better than what ends up on screen???…Yeah I know…time constraints

The funniest scene for me from this ep is Spike and the dummy but the funniest scene from the script is when W/A go back to the magic shop and Giles is there, damn I wished they would have put that in the ep and what about Giles’s last line in the shop…Where's the cash register?

I don’t understand why they didn’t show Tara hugging Willow when she comes in to the Bronze, the fact that she doesn't, just doesn't make sense, after being so worried about Willow, they could have cut a few seconds somewhere else and showed it but oh well, we did get the G word…twice

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gogirrrr posted 01-10-2001 11:26 EST (US)
Robert, you have my vote to kick you onto the Buffy script writing island.....well done.

Kate (smiling as I play “Bob’s” scene over in my head)

november posted 01-10-2001 11:48 EST (US)
I'm still learning how to quote, w/o much success. the following is a quotation from above:

13. although i hate to say it, i almost felt like willow was being WAY childish through the whole episode.


End quotation

Glad to see that someone else felt this way. I don't think Willow was behaving very nicely, especially during the first third of the show. In retrospect it made sense. Anya was just being Anya, but in order to set up a conflict that wasn't enough; Willow had to do something to bring her into a dispute with Anya in order to set up the conflict.

On the other hand, if Willow was a little out of character, Tara was dead-on--all gentle supportive kindness. And, I thought, particularly beautiful in her first scene seated at the table with the scoobies.

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Spring posted 01-10-2001 11:57 EST (US)
When Buffy was crying on Tara's shoulder and said "Miraculous love", did anyone else besides me immediately think, Willow and Tara have a miraculous love! It's a freakin' miracle that they got together in the first place. And it's a miracle that they're still together!
I would've like Buffy to sappily acknowledge (like she did about Xander and Anya) that Willow and Tara's relationship had a lot less going for it than even X/A(being that it's gay and happy and Oz came back and all that jazz).
That editing in the last scene when Buffy looks at both couples but it is edited to look like she is talking to only X/A shows that a) it was in the script, b) it was shot as the script wanted, and c) was edited in postproduction.
Maybe by allowing Joss the inclusion of the two gay references, he had to compromise and make them look less couple-y?

Now the last time I remember such a glaring editing issue was with The Yoko Factor (?), when Tara was caressing/rubbing Willow's neck and that was snipped in favor of a computer screenshot. Joss acknowledged this and said that the touching itself looked awkward and he didn't like it, so he replaced it. These awkward edits seem to be put in at the last minute for whatever. Am I just too focused on W/T to notice this happening with other couples and/or other scenes? Cause it just seems to happen around W/T.

Another thing, it must be such a pain in the ass for Joss to have to constantly fight to have W/T show affection to each other. If I were in his place, I would get so tired of being bogged down by these issues day in and day out, that I wouldn't even want to show W/T at all. It's just such a hassle. For a couple that takes up let's say 7% of screentime, I wonder if he has to expend 20% of his energy dealing with all the hoo-ha over it. Joss, as usual, rocks.

I just read the shooting script. Looks like they cut out a whole chunk of very funny Giles. So maybe it's not a conspiracy, just a new editor or something.

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EvilAnya posted 01-10-2001 12:33 EST (US)
I loved this ep, loved the fact that they built Tara's character more, but i have mixed feelings about the "hello, gay now" line. I was fine with "hello gay" but the "now" part is what really got to me. It implies that being gay is something that can turn on and off, it seems like it could lead to a "hey, not gay anymore" line in the future and that put me off.


How cute was tara in this ep? so so cute, i love the way she's fitting in with the gang, and i am still hoping for an Anya/Tara friendship. One thing is for certain; they will not be living in the all shrimp alter universe.
darvangi posted 01-10-2001 12:49 EST (US)
I sympathize with you on the "hello gay now" line, EvilAnya. The possibility of Willow being able to turn sexual preference on and off like a switch is scary for the future of W/T (although it descibes my sexuality pretty well, come to think of it). It might be better to interpret the line as "hello, involved in a loving, monogamous gay relationship now." It might not be the same crowd pleaser that way, but it keeps the line from being foreboding.

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Gudanov posted 01-10-2001 12:59 EST (US)
quote:
Originally posted by november:
I don't think Willow was behaving very nicely, especially during the first third of the show. In retrospect it made sense. Anya was just being Anya, but in order to set up a conflict that wasn't enough; Willow had to do something to bring her into a dispute with Anya in order to set up the conflict.

On the other hand, if Willow was a little out of character,


I don't think Willow was really out of character. Being catty isn't anything new, and being careless with magic is pretty standard fare.

Roxton posted 01-10-2001 13:27 EST (US)
I noticed that at the end of Triangle there was no trailer, so this morning I checked next week's TV Guide to see if Buffy will be a repeat. It appears that it is. From the description it looks like No Place Like Home. At least we'll get to see a new episode of Angel.

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Hugin posted 01-10-2001 13:37 EST (US)
Willow has used the Hello, "blank", and the "blank" now constructions before. Phrasing it that way last night is just good consistent characterization.

For example "Hello, still Jewish", and "Hello, dating a musician."

And "Bored now." "Falling now."

I knew as soon as I saw that line that some folks on Brand X boards would try to interpret it as "Gay at this moment, but subject to change."

Well, phooey. It's like the folks who said things last year about "Well Joss considers all relationships on the show to be romantic, so when he says W and T are in a romantic relationship, it doesn't mean anything." It's grasping at straws. It's trying to parse what the definition of "is" is. Willow is gay. The folks who can deal with that reality will do so, and they won't worry excessively about the word "now", or freak out if Willow actually finds some random guy vaguely cute or whatever. The folk who can't, can't, no matter how emphatically or elaborately it's explained to them.

Of course, I made the mistake of going to the Bronze last night and got into a couple of arguments, so I'm cranky.

-len

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tyche posted 01-10-2001 13:58 EST (US)
I was thinking about why they decided to deal with Buffy's grief (and she is grieving, the end of any relationship is upsetting) over the departure of Riley in a comic way, and the only thing I could come up with is this: self-parody. It seemed like most of season 3 was B/A angst (btw the parody of this in 'The Zeppo' has to count as one of my favourite 'Buffy' moments ever), and so to avoid even more angst and Buffy-mopiness, they went down the comedy route. This sounds as though it provided some good comic moments, but my problem with this decision is that it cheapens & trivialises the B/R relationship (which I always thought was a much more adult & mature relationship than B/A), as well as completely devaluing Xander's speech to Buffy in 'Into the Woods'.
However, the way they chose to tackle Buffy's reaction to the break-up may also be an indicator as to what's ahead for her: we've already seen her increasingly cut off from the rest of the Scoobies this season - she couldn't even confide in Riley (I don't think she would have confided in Angel if she was still with him, either) and she wants to explore her slayer origins. So, could we see Buffy turning her back on the Scoobies, cutting herself off from her emotions and fighting the good fight alone? (Or even turning to the dark side and heading off into the sunset with Spike...)

Of course, I haven't seen 'Triangle' and 'Into the Woods' yet, so I could have this completely wrong. Anyone else have thoughts on this?

Trickster posted 01-10-2001 14:04 EST (US)
Posting my thoughts, before reading the thread. Just thought I should note that.

First thoughts:

Xander and Anya fans have no fear. They aren’t going to be breaking up anytime soon. You want to know how I figured this out?

Well you know the last episode where I got the feeling the writer was using Xander to speak for them in reference to Riley. Well I got the feeling they were using Buffy to make their intentions clear here. Yes Buffy is upset because Riley’s gone (I was afraid of that) and she could be all out of her head and it did feel that way, but I still feel like the writer’s were using Buffy to make their intentions clear about what will be happening to the other couples. On the plus side, after this I see Willow and Tara to continue going strong.

Also they cleared the whole Willow/Anya fighting, which I hate, actually. I liked the fact that Anya and Willow didn’t get along. Oh well. And I’m sure I am probably the only one that didn’t find the Willow and Anya scene’s funny. I’m not sure why, but most of the stuff that was supposed to be funny fell flat to me.

However, I am glad to see Willow and Xander (as a potential couple) put to rest. I enjoyed the flirting and stuff but it’s nice to know it’s over and I like Willow and Tara and want to see them make it.

Anyway as for the episode itself, I think the only good parts were, Willow’s “Hello, gay now” line and the scene between Spike and Xander in The Bronze, anyway to me these are the only parts worth watching again.

Although it is nice to see that with Riley gone, all the characters are getting a fair amount of screen time now.

There was also some other good parts, I swear Spike copped a feel when the Troll threw Buffy on him. But does anyone else get the feeling to writers are going to use Spike to show us how great Riley was? I’m not sure what give me that feeling but I was thinking it all through the episode. Enough with Riley! He’s gone. We (the audience) have moved on, so I say the show should move on.

The episode itself was better than Into The Woods, but still ranks very low, for me. But again on the plus side I felt this episode was building toward bigger and better things.

As for Xander and Anya, while I still don’t like their relationship, I am willing to bet that it is here to stay after Triangle.

On a sadder note, for those of us wanting some kind of Xander/Buffy resolution. It’s not going to happen, because as I said above Xander and Anya seem to be here to stay, and after the way Buffy acted tonight I don’t see anything happening between her and Xander even if Anya left.

Now one last question, before I stop: When are they going to de rat Amy? I for one am getting tired of it.

If the actress is busy with other stuff de rat her and have Amy move on, or just kill the Amy rat and be done with it.

Note: I am sorry that my last two Buffy reviews have been, well not happy. But I really didn’t enjoy these last two episodes. I am hoping the next episode will be good and I can write a happy review.

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I love Buffy The Vampire Slayer!

tyche posted 01-10-2001 14:07 EST (US)
Having just read a total misinterpretation of the "hello, gay now" line on another board, I'm just going to try and give my reading of it.
It wouldn't have worked if Willow had just said "hello, gay" because that would have totally ignored her relationship with Oz and flirtation with Xander (Anya's jealousy over Willow and Xander's past attraction to one another being a theme of this ep.) So, "hello, gay now" works because it indicates that she's realised that she's gay (not bi) due to her relationship with Tara, and that she's comfortable with this. As for the future, this line indicates to me that Willow is sure that she's gay, and she isn't going to be attracted to men again.

Spring posted 01-10-2001 14:10 EST (US)
Actually one of the funniest parts of this ep was when Willow said she'd been trying to de-rat Amy but it was only making her smarter. Willow was sure Amy was planning something because she'd been rubbing her little paws together. Hee hee. I smile everytime I think of that. It's such a good visual image. Whiskers all a-twitter, glinty eyes, paws rubbing....
christa monsta posted 01-10-2001 14:23 EST (US)

Well, i think there can be many different ways to look at the "hello, gay now" line. i like to look at it in a positive light and say, wow, she actually said that! what a declaration! but i do agree with Tyche...i take this to mean that she will now fall in love with women from here on out. it's a pretty regular thing to "discover" that you're gay at some point later in your life...or even to accept it after a long time of knowing it. so, yes, willow is gay now...she didn't DEFINE HERSELF as gay before. BUT, if she someday breaks it off with tara (otherwise known as The Day I Want to Kill Someone) and falls in love with a guy...then i may have a problem with it. that's why i'm more inclined to not want to LABEL things so much...do what feels good...follow your heart. labels are so restricting, dabnabbit! but i gotta say, i freaking LOVED the G-words last night. so what can you do?

(one more thing, i think this IS an important issue to discuss...even if it DOES eventually just get down to semantics.)


christa monsta

Hugin posted 01-10-2001 14:24 EST (US)
Now all Amy needs is Pinky, and she can take over the world!

-len

Corporeal Dennis posted 01-10-2001 14:27 EST (US)
Totally, Spring. I've been laughing about that visual all morning.

That line also sounded suspiciously like one of those throwaway lines that comes back later in the season to bite someone in the ass. And the rumor is that Amy will be getting de-ratted this season...

My favorite line of the episode is still "I said 'quirky'," though.

--Dennis

Anyalvr posted 01-10-2001 14:33 EST (US)
I don't think Xander and Anya are going to break up any time soon, either, simply for the fact that both actors are signed up for
a while and character-wise, they're the first stabilizing force - romantically at least - either one of them has ever had.

Nor so for Willow and Tara. I don't think the "gay now" line cheapens Willow and Oz's relationship at all or declares that she isn't bisexual. It's more like "hello, I have
a woman now, I don't need to patrol for guys"
kind of thing. It doesn't mean that she didn't love Oz or she didn't love Xander. She just doesn't anymore (well, romantically). Shippers may have a problem with this. And I still stand by my assertion that Willow/Oz ended on a good note, still
caring about each other but Willow admitting she had moved on and Oz accepting it.

I thought ITW was an episode of total manipulative crap and Xander's speech was the worst part of it. The sooner Buffy gets over Riley, the better, cuz the 'points' made about Buffy/Riley in that episode sounded totally false to me. And it doesn't help that I hated him and I never want him to
come back and I think Buffy's MUCH better off
without him. With all her troubles, a self-destructive boyfriend is the last thing she needs (it beats an evil ex-boyfriend that wants to kill you, but still . . . not good).
And I don't want any further manipulative points about this and that. It's over. Maybe
Buffy'll learn something. Maybe not. But either way she still has a little sister to protect and I'd much rather hear about THAT.

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"I tried to be unlovable/why couldn't you do the same?"

-(jewel)

"Spank us 'til Tuesday! We promise to be bad if you do!"
-(drusilla, angel)

BBOvenGuy posted 01-10-2001 14:34 EST (US)
quote:
Originally posted by Hugin:
I knew as soon as I saw that line that some folks on Brand X boards would try to interpret it as "Gay at this moment, but subject to change."

Well, phooey. It's like the folks who said things last year about "Well Joss considers all relationships on the show to be romantic, so when he says W and T are in a romantic relationship, it doesn't mean anything." It's grasping at straws. It's trying to parse what the definition of "is" is.


Exactly! Thank you Len for pointing this out.

I took "Hello, gay now" to be the equivalent of "Hello, not straight any more and therefore not a threat to you," but in a more concise and Willow-ish fashion. To microanalyze the word "now" into an implication that Willow will suddenly start liking guys again is simply annoying.


quote:
Willow is gay. The folks who can deal with that reality will do so, and they won't worry excessively about the word "now", or freak out if Willow actually finds some random guy vaguely cute or whatever. The folk who can't, can't, no matter how emphatically or elaborately it's explained to them.

I'm reminded of the AMC scene that was transcribed a few days ago (See? I pay attention to the non-W/T threads sometimes... ) - where Bianca was at the party and started to dance with that guy, but then stopped because she saw Erica looking at her and smiling. There are plenty of "Ericas" out there who will pounce on the slightest little thing that they can spin into implying that Willow might not "really" be gay. Fortunately, none of those people are in a position to control Joss Whedon, so we really don't have to worry about them.

Banshee posted 01-10-2001 14:54 EST (US)
Ok, my two cents(all of this based on 1/2 watching it and 1/2 explaining the back story to a friend who was over):

--Lovin' the Buffy Melodramatic stuff. I like cheese campy crap and she was all over it. Had the thought of, "Well, I can see why she won the Emmy for AMC.." I loved it..the little quiver of the bottom lip--break my heart!

--I too noticed the lack of Buffy's focus on saying how great w/t's love was--but, why that is seems to be up for debate.

--Line that had me laughing early on:
Dawn: Watcha doin'
Buffy: Playing soccer

Maybe it's just my sick, simple sense of humor but I loved it.

--Amber is the queen of unspoken emotions--her looks were all over this episode and she was great. Aside from her ability, I do have to wonder: What the hell was up with her hair? Did it look like it was malformed on her head?

--Anya is becoming one of my faves..I've begun to look forward to her screen time as much as I do willow or taras.

--Spike is adorable...and gropey.

Ok, plan on going home tonight and obsessively watching it.

-S

Hugin posted 01-10-2001 15:15 EST (US)
Yeah. The Bianca moment is a really good example of why this is all, in a way, a shame Robert. Bianca should be able to dance with a guy if she feels like it, without it shaking the foundations of her identity, and giving fuel to folks who don't have her best interests at heart. (even if they think they do)

That's why I support the Hello, gay now line. Not because I have so very much invested in Willow being gay per se, if anything I've tended to be in the Willow-as-bi camp. But it's clear that very few folks (outside of this wonderful board) can deal with any complexity in this matter. I can now use the line like a big...frozen...halibut to beat the foolish over the head with. Which is to say, it's not exactly the tool I would have picked, but it helps get a job done that clearly needs doing.

Anything poor Willow says or does that doesn't support a total alignment with W/T, and/or gayness (The mention of the old crush on Giles. The mild infatuation with Drac. The failure to, I dunno, shoot Oz dead or something during the van scene) just unleashes a new round of second guessing, which annoys me to no end. Imagine if she was insane enough to compliment a shirt:

"Oh, nice shirt Xander."

Clearly, that means:

"Ah, see, she just flirted with Xander, she really loves him, and all men, see!"

Bah.

I really need to stay away from the Bronze. Oy.

-len

Spring posted 01-10-2001 15:23 EST (US)
I took the "gay now" line to be a funny way to say "What's Tara, chopped liver? I got my own sitch, baby!" Or "You wanna talk lips? Have you seen the lips on my woman?"

Well you get the point. I am also in the Willow as bisexual camp, but she's currently in a gay relationship so it would make sense for her to say she's currently gay. It's no big.

Hugin posted 01-10-2001 15:26 EST (US)
Ah, hi Spring. It's no big. So calm, so concise. Next time I go to the Bronze, I'm taking you with me.

-len

christa monsta posted 01-10-2001 15:26 EST (US)

mmmm...lipssssssss....

glenda the good witch posted 01-10-2001 15:26 EST (US)
I thought this was a pretty great episode. I agree with gogrrr ... I was left thinking ..hmmm Buffy is so freaked about X/A and not a mention of how great W/T was. It could be a director thing, a script cut thing or whatever..it didn't feel good and felt like a set up for X/A troubles. Which I guess in the end is good coz that mean's no W/T troubles?

My fav line apart from "Hello, gay now" was the lil "baby" dialogue between troll man and Spike with Xander's great reaction. I absolutely adore Spike and thought the scene with the dummy was HYSTERICAL. If Spike does get that chip out, I have a feeling Buffy will be in HUGE trouble after all this angst.

I also loved Tara bonding with Buffy and a bit with Xander (though not directly with him). There was a thread awhile back about who could Tara be buds with apart from Willow, and in a weird way I could totally see her be buddies with Xander or Buffy. Buffy could use some stong but quiet women types around her. Buff has a lot of male role models which may also contribute to the way she handles relationships and she could use some of Willow's feminity and Tara's strength.

Anyhoo...now I'm rambling

Glenda

april posted 01-10-2001 15:34 EST (US)
quote:
Originally posted by Hugin:
Now all Amy needs is Pinky, and she can take over the world!

what are we going to do today amy? lol!

len, i am loving this and all your other posts to this thread. hee hee!

and crista, i'm totally with you: i tend to be against labels, but it was sooooo nice to hear willow say those three magic words in front of an audience of millions last night.

now personally, i'm fine with willow defining her sexuality any way she chooses. if she defines it according to the person that she's with (a perfectly valid option), then yes, she is gay now, she was not gay before, and whether or not she's gay in the future depends on who she dates in the future. (though i hope that she and tara are together forever and ever...*cue violins*)

there is just nothing that can be done about the people who use the "now" in that phrase to try and prove that willow isn't "really" gay. she and tara could kiss 10 times an episode, embark on epic onscreen sexathons a la buffy and riley, have a commitment ceremony and start a family by adopting little wicclets to keep mkf company, and the people who don't like their relationship will still say that it won't last, that they don't see any chemistry between w/t and that they know willow is really straight. there is just no convincing them, so we might as well revel in lines like "hello, gay now!" and ignore the lame people who say lame things.

so there.

Spring posted 01-10-2001 15:35 EST (US)
I was too aghast at having Buffy and Tara conversing in order to appreciate their special brand of chemistry. They do have a special brand of chemistry, right? It was distracting to see them conversing for the first time 15 episodes after her introduction.
I think Xander and Tara are both affable people and would suit each other on a friend to friend level. Whereas you are right Glenda, Buffy needs more girlfriends and Tara is just an extremely relaxed human being. I'm sure if Tara had been around at the beginning of the season (instead of going off and playing with her wiccie friends), Tara could've really explained to Buffy where here relationship with Riley was going wrong.
Isn't it strange that the ep Tara was introduced in was also the ep where Riley was outed as an initiative person? And isn't it strange that Tara's still here but Riley isn't? Wow.
Hugin posted 01-10-2001 15:55 EST (US)
Wicclets april? That's insanely cute.

-len

Dr.G posted 01-10-2001 16:30 EST (US)
Boy, I wish I could watch this episode. It sounds great. Of course I'm disappointed about the hug not being shown, but I feel better knowing now the ladies show some initiative off screen.

You're right April, there is no convincing the lame and stupid. I don't even want to waste my breath. The truth is on our side anyway. It makes me happy and them miserable, which is just the way I like it. Willow and Tara forever indeed! I like violins btw.

Devlin posted 01-10-2001 16:33 EST (US)
So, what's up with the Greek theme that popped up both in Restless and Triangle? Aside from the greek Sappho poem on Tara's back, when Willow was reading her book report to the class, Anya said, "It's like a Greek Tragedy... There should only be Greeks." That's one of the lines in Restless that competes for most confusing in my mind, and I'm not sure if its made better or worse by Tara and Buffy taking Greek Art.
yenESQ posted 01-10-2001 16:48 EST (US)
It would be interesting if Tara helped Buffy pay attention in the Greek Arts class long enough for her to figure out info on Glory, who would be some unknown Greek goddess. That would also serve the purpose of acknowledging that they are, in fact, going to college AND taking classes!

But as much as I like this speculation, I don't see it happening.

Although, the "Greek tragedy" reference from Restless could be foreshadowing the choice Buffy will need to make regarding the fate of Dawn. Not that I know what Greek tragedy is...

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wiccie posted 01-10-2001 17:01 EST (US)
Many great points, all around.

Devlin, my guess on the "Greek Theme" is that it's Joss' (or another of the writers) in-joke about their own college years. Did any of them major or minor in classics? We know Joss went to school in England and has mini Shaxspur Fests at his house with the BTVS cast.


I liked the ep, esp. Abraham Benrubi as Olaf, but the overal pacing seemed uneven.

I'll chalk that up to a newbie director and poor editing.

Fave moments other than "Hello, gay now!"

Xander hiding behind Tara

The Smarter Amy lines

Foreshadowing Alert:

I think the idea of Willow getting too cavlier with magic will become more important. Remember in "Out of My Mind" Tara seemed concerned that Willow tampered with the "Tinkerbell Light Spell", and in "Family" Tara is "spell gal" to keep up w/ Willow.

Anyway, longer post than I intended. Whew!

christa monsta posted 01-10-2001 17:10 EST (US)
One more thing i got from reading Rayne's Shooting Script for Triangle...was wondering why Anya all of a sudden was talking about a health inspector!

"ANYA
You're going away for a week?
That's great!


GILES
Yes, yes. Everyone seems quite
delighted about it.


ANYA
Well, I get to run the store, right?


GILES
You... There's quite a lot for
one person to do...
(consults a list)
The trashmen, for example. They've
been making such a mess in the alley
that the recycling people can't get
in there to collect. Someone has to
talk to them. Also, there's some
health inspector who has decided that
potions are technically "food," and
that we need a full inspection.


ANYA
I can take care of that.


XANDER
Food? Who's sitting around saying,
hey, I could go for some tasty potion.


TARA
I'm envious, Giles. A trip to
England sounds so exciting and exotic.
(realizing)
Unless you're English."

Corana posted 01-10-2001 17:23 EST (US)
This is in response to the gay/bi question:

Since when aren't bi people gay? All of my bi friends consider themselves gay. They wouldn't refer to themselves as lesbians, but gay isn't off limits.

Does anyone else see it this way?

Zelda posted 01-10-2001 17:33 EST (US)
I always use gay and queer as all inclusive terms. However, I don't think that was Willow's point. Telling Anya that she was bi now doesn't allay Anya's fears about Willow putting moves on Xander.
darvangi posted 01-10-2001 17:56 EST (US)
There was an interesting show on NPR recently that spent a half hour talking about the history of the words 'queer' and 'gay' and whether or not they are all-inclusive. The opinion of the guest speaker was that 'gay' is taken by modern society to mean strictly homosexual, whereas 'queer' is more commonly accepted as a term that includes the whole LGBT population.

I, however, agree with you folks who say that 'gay' can be inclusive as well. And I think that the script was just making it clear that Willow was no longer in the running for hot, greasy man-love, and that Anya could cool her jets.

judy posted 01-10-2001 18:36 EST (US)
And then there's the Chinese... who did not originally have a "homo-hetero dichotomy"... ("Tongzhi: The Politics of Same-Sex Eroticism in Chinese Societies")

Hmmm...

"Hello, grinding tofu now!"


hypergirl posted 01-10-2001 19:44 EST (US)
Hi...new here...I'm Ashley.... LoL
Anywayz I was watching the episode again just now ...and I had read things about Tara not doing many spells and such lately ...and I something as I watched it again just struck me...at the beginning when Willow is first getting stuff from the shop...Anya says What are you TWO doing....and Willow says WE're working on a few spells ...next up Tara talks about how they're trying to do the light spell...and turns out later that Willow is the only one to try it. Evidently it was they for a bit....Tara had worked or had looked into it with Willow and such....and eh I'm beginning to ramble so I'm going to stop right now. Hopefully you guys will get used to my weird use of periods and rambling....boy do I ramble. LoL

Ciao -
ºAshleyº

Zelda posted 01-10-2001 19:51 EST (US)
Hey Ashley. Welcome. If you want, go down to the Introduction thread and properly introduce yourself. Glad to have you here.
april posted 01-10-2001 20:53 EST (US)
quote:
Originally posted by judy:
"Hello, grinding tofu now!"

ROFLMAO, judy!!!! hee hee hee... hello!

oh and ashley, i noticed that as well...willow initially implied that both she and tara were working on the spell, but later tara just seems to have dropped out of the picture. hey willow! let tara play too!

maybe if you'd waited for tara, you never would have had that pesky troll problem!

xita posted 01-10-2001 22:25 EST (US)
Hello, gay now.

Anyone can think what they want. And interpretations can all be valid. So I'll give mine. I have no doubt that the writers have decided that Willow is a lesbian. Let's remember that they didn't want to use labels at all ever. They just wanted things to just be. Something changed and they decided to do that. Joss felt that it wasn't possible not to. So they chose gay and they chose to use it twice. Not only that they chose to use it in a way that was going to make Anya feel better. Willow and the writers used the word gay to prove to Anya that Willow would never try to steal Xander away because as of now she's gay. I am also satisfied with the responsible attitude that Joss and company have dealt with this whole thing that their use of the word gay guarantees that Willow won't be with a guy again. I don't think they would want to confuse the issue.

I am left with something though. And I will admit that I don't like the idea, only cause I am so attached to her. Tara hasn't declared her sexuality. It may be Tara in the end that ends up being bisexual.


MCaswell posted 01-10-2001 22:27 EST (US)
I don't have much to add, just wanted to say that I had a blast watching and rewatching Triangle. There were too many great throw-away lines and hilarious moments to mention. It was FUN. I missed fun Buffy. Even the Riley-angst was funny.

Gotta mention Alyson Hannigan, she's remarkable. Her timing and delivery were perfect.

"In what twisted dictionary is that stealing?"

"He's not a ball of sunshine."

"I wish I had a million dollars."

I was LMAO at her expression when she found out Anya had never driven before. And her Anya imitation was dead on. Too good. I adore Willow.

Marie

Anyalvr posted 01-11-2001 12:39 EST (US)
I have a feeling that Tara is a lesbian. A straight-ahead-only-liking-girls-lesbian. Something about the way she immediately was
so attached to Willow and tried to gather approval and affection from her told me that
she had always been attracted to girls. I'd also be willing to bet money on the fact that
Willow was her first.

Willow kind of stumbled into the relationship
and realized it worked for her, I think. She
didn't expect it, but it happened.

Either way, I don't want a guy - or another girl - to come between them. Ever. Stupid and unrealistic I know but I'm a stickler for it.

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"I tried to be unlovable/why couldn't you do the same?"

-(jewel)

"Spank us 'til Tuesday! We promise to be bad if you do!"
-(drusilla, angel)

xita posted 01-11-2001 01:29 EST (US)
Oh, believe me, Tara was like all about the lesbian vibes. I never doubted that. I am just being weird with worry. And I am with you.. I want Tara and Willow to stay together forever and ever and I don't want a boy or a girl to get in there in between them. That's why the gay now line makes me happy. And yes.. unrealistic for me to expect them to last, but hey it makes me happy.

Just wanted to give a plug to the newly available Triangle screen caps from Adrienne at Extra Flamey
and at Stain and Varnish
GO DRI!

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mucifer posted 01-11-2001 09:24 EST (US)
i've always felt that tara was lesbian especially when willow and tara had that discussion in "hush" where tara says she always knew she was a witch. sure it's subtext but im hoping there wont be inconsistancies with the writing.

on the "hello gay now " line i still think the writers are lashing out at the homophobes in full blast. didnt even occur to me the "you can turn on and off the being gay thing" because it is consistant with how willow speaks and the way she would reassure anya and being full of pride about her current love

christa monsta posted 01-11-2001 10:11 EST (US)

hey, is it me, or did willow's t-shirt (underneath her black jacket) have a pair of lips on it that looked suspiciously like the lips from Rocky Horror Picture Show??? or is this just a figment of imagination? if not - how cool is that?

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W: "I am a whiz!"
T: "She is a whiz!"
W: "If ever a whiz there was..."
- The Yoko Factor

xita posted 01-11-2001 10:15 EST (US)
Triangle reviews at Scifi.ign
and at WB Scoop

YOu know one of the complaints I hear about the episode was Buffy's tears. I didn't take it at all seriously. Some people are bothered because it was too cruel to mock b/r. Others thought that Buffy didn't love him enough to cry like that. I just took it as a parody and in a way a very clever way to deal with the loss of a somewhat unpopular character.

Dr.G posted 01-11-2001 10:23 EST (US)
Xita, you took the words right out of my mouth (except for the bi bit), I could have said that myself, wait...I did say that, hehe. They *will* last btw, another law of nature I just made up. Thanks for the link to the pics, they weren't up last night.
Thank you Adrienne for the quick service. Must have pictures...lots of it. Tara pictures are my soul food. She looks great as always, such wonderful expressions on her face. On closer inspection I still like Willow's hair, and it looks like Buffy is wearing *hers* like Britney Spears, hmmm...

Editing to add: I was of course referring to the post before this one Xita, don't post when I'm posting will ya...

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april posted 01-11-2001 10:48 EST (US)
quote:
Originally posted by xita:
I am left with something though. And I will admit that I don't like the idea, only cause I am so attached to her. Tara hasn't declared her sexuality. It may be Tara in the end that ends up being bisexual.


here i go again with my morning xita stalking, um, i mean, quoting.

especially after seeing triangle, i doubt that we will ever see any evidence that tara is bisexual. in fact, i doubt we'll ever see any evidence of tara being attracted to anyone else - it is just so clear that she is singlemindedly, wholeheartedly devoted to willow. willow is her entire world, you can see that so clearly by the look on her face when she's in the magic shop telling buffy that willow's gone, by the way she tells willow at the end of family that she always makes her feel special. i don't think tara can even conceive of being attracted to someone else.

for all intents and purposes, tara's sexual orientation is really neither gay nor bisexual - it's just willow.

and i like it that way.

Dr.G posted 01-11-2001 10:54 EST (US)
Awww April (mind if I stalk *you*? Just practising in case I get to stalk Amber one day.) I like that..."her sexual orientation is just Willow"...perfect!
Utena posted 01-11-2001 11:08 EST (US)
Dri just wanted to thank you for the quick screencaps! I've been pining for them since airtime ^^ Yummy...

April, you said it perfectly. Her sexual orientation IS willow.

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april posted 01-11-2001 11:32 EST (US)
wow, the two reviews that xita posted are great! sarah kuhn, who i *adore*, says "And of course, I must dish out props for what has to be the best line of the season: Willow's 'Hello, gay now!'", and even has a picture of willow with that line as the caption.

and the wb scoop review says:

"Perhaps the most interesting tidbit here is the presence of the first affirmative and unflinching admission by our favorite Wiccan coed that she is, in fact, gay. We all knew this, of course. Any actual question concerning the nature of the Tara–Willow relationship went out the window a long time ago. But there is something to be said for announcing her sexual preference to the world."

yes! yes there is! even discounting all the other wonderful things about "triangle", that one line assures that this is going to be remembered as a momentous episode in the history of buffy.

Hugin posted 01-11-2001 12:13 EST (US)
Can you imagine what it must have been like for Tara to meet Willow? (Setting aside that fact that Willow is devestatingly cute)

She's got the horrible family, telling her that the magic is evil. Which has got to conflict with the way the magic feels inside to her.

Andthen, she's brave enough to break away from them, and heads off tocollegs, and reaches out to other wiccans, and finds...they're kinda shallow and don't seem to have any real power.

And then, boom. Willow. Cute (did I mention that already?) and with real power. I don't think its much of an exaggeration to say that when Tara met Willow, she found something she had been looking for her whole life.

-len

Zahir posted 01-11-2001 15:12 EST (US)
I'm finding myself agreeing with a lot of what's been said abou