Banshee, some of the people who saw the "Meat" picture were angered by it and said so. Some of the people who saw it were annoyed by it (which is how I would have characterized my personal reaction).
And some of the people who saw it didn't seem to be particularly annoyed. Some folks were appalled by the outfits of 'lil Kim et al, others just found them goofy. I suppose if the exact same folks who protest the "Meat" picture also drooled over FHM pics, there could be a discussion of double standards, but even in the case of the Aly FHM shoot, there was a diversity of opinion, some folks indicated disappointment with Aly, others didn't mind a "sexy" Aly photoshoot per se but didn't like the "schoolgirl" theme, etc. There have been some significant, sometimes heated discussions recently about this sort of thing, appreciation vs. objectification.
And of course, very similar experiences can strike the same people very differently, for subtle and hard to explain reasons. For example, I have generally don't much mind viewing all manner of violent action movie content, gunfire, explosions, blood all over the place...except for the times when it really bothers me.
So, in terms of a gut level reaction, I think it may be possible to look at one picture and have a healthy, sex-positive drool, so to speak, and look at another right after and be offended by the demeaning objectification. And there have been images I've felt to be sexy or attractive one day, in one mood, that I've gone back later and thought "God Len, how broken was your taste that day?", if not "God Len, what a jerk guy you were that day." Some folks are pretty disciplined in thier consitent approach to such things, but I'd guess most of the time folks call it like they feel it at the moment.
-len
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