I love this topic! This is what i ask myself sometimes!She doesn´t say I LOVE YOU to Willow but i think she shows Willow her Love in another ways!
Maybe it´s Tara´s Shyness <--
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We all know that Tara loves Willow!!!! She loves her sooooo much! ....
Sometimes people doesn´t say.... they couldn´t! But they feel!!!
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... english grammar...brrrr 
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Posts: 2000 Registered: Jan 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 16:26 No she is not afraid to say it. She may have her insecurities or doubts, but loving Willow is not one of them. I am sure she has said it many times in private. We simply have not been shown that, as we have not been shown many other things they do in private.  However, what we *have* been shown can leave no doubt as to the complete and unconditional love they have for each other. ------------------ Amber Benson has really nice hair and I want her shampoo.[This message has been edited by Dr.G (edited June 25, 2001).] IP: Logged |
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Posts: 53 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 17:02 Tara has told Willow in private, I think that one is a given and lets face it you only have to see the way Tara looks at Willow to know that she adores her, and she does look at Willow, a lot! As for her not saying it on screen I suspect the writers are just being evil yet again, and saving it up for some really angsty moment before Tara actually says it out loud for we mere mortals to hear, gotta love Joss (not!) ------------------ I am in thunderous agreement, oh glittering, glistening Glorificus! : Jinx in Tough Love IP: Logged |
Warduke Big Pineapple
Posts: 1142 Registered: Nov 2000 | posted June 25, 2001 17:12 I have no doubt that Tara has told Willow she loves her a million times in private (same for Willow) but it is one of my wishes for the next season...that W/T tell each other "I love you", hopefully more than once  IP: Logged |
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Posts: 19 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 17:32 hey, not to sound all negative, cuz i love em', but.... i'm not so sure tara has said it. i mean, i feel, (know), that she does, but i dont think she has actually said she loves will. i also think will knows it. however, i also thought there was something going on bec/ i couldnt think of a time when tara has used willows name. so i might not have any credit to my name on such topics.... theres my opinion anywayIP: Logged |
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Posts: 2000 Registered: Jan 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 17:37 Well, I think you may find yourself in a minority here. I can assure you that Tara has utterred Willow's name many times, Even when she was brainsucked. Besides that every look and touch conveys the love they share. It would be *extremely* unlikely if she has not already said it out loud. But that's just my opinion.  ------------------
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Posts: 223 Registered: May 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 17:40 I didn't think it might be an issue until the book "Unseen" when it mentioned that Tara wasn't ready to call it love yet (I'm assuming she means for herself). Of course, a lot of time has passed since then, but I did find it odd that we've only heard Willow say it. They are so deliberate on that show, that it made me wonder if there was a reason (Tara's insecurities). I have no doubt though that Tara loves Willow in her heart.IP: Logged |
Rane Tara Ass
Posts: 704 Registered: Sep 2000 | posted June 25, 2001 18:08 umm, *i am you know... yours*... isn't that an i love you is a jossonian way?IP: Logged |
The Rose Floating Rose
Posts: 31 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 18:21 Rane, That line should be the answer for anyone who has doubts. If you notice, Willow does not say anything here. She just smiles at her. I would love to know what happens after this scene though. Do not forget to mention the way Tara stares at Willow and her body after she goes to get drinks and the way Faith notices the look in Tara's eyes. Naturegal, The books are not always accurate. I have read just about every Buffy novel out, and there are definitely some discrepancies.
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Posts: 2556 Registered: Sep 2000 | posted June 25, 2001 19:16 I would like to see them say 'I love you' in a way that indicates they've already said it. In a similar way to the method that most people wanted to see the kiss.With the kiss, it was as though it had happened before; therefore was natural and without the whole first kiss label on it. I'd like to see Tara say something along the lines of "Honey, you know I love you but..." or something like that. I'm convinced they've already said it. That Tara's already said it. So no need for big drama. Edited to add: quote: Originally posted by Glory-p3-mrs: i couldnt think of a time when tara has used willows name.
I think you'll notice, if you watch Tough Love again, that Willow's name was the only one that Tara said. In all the confusion she felt, the one person she recognised was Willow. Their love appears in so many ways; it's clear to me that they have a totally romantic relationship in the classic sense (as well as in a real sense), where proclamations and 'I love you's' aren't necessary, because it shines out of them all of the time. "Tara had never felt as good about herself in her life. Willow gave her that gift. And another gift. Tara couldn't quite bring herself to call it love. Not yet. But there was time." ~ Unseen: The Burning [This message has been edited by tommo (edited June 25, 2001).] IP: Logged |
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Posts: 8 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 22:21 mm.. I never noticed that. Maybe Tara will say it more now though after the "being lost" incident and now being her normal self because of Willow saving the day.IP: Logged |
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Posts: 4181 Registered: Sep 2000 | posted June 25, 2001 23:11 Rane beat me to it. I think "I am you know... yours" is deeper than an I love you in some ways. I am sure Tara has said it privately. Though I would like to hear her say it.Tara has said Willow's name many times. In fact, the first time I recall is The in Team when Willow comes back to Tara apologizing for ditching her and going out to hang with the scoobies. Tara opens the door and says, "willow." IP: Logged |
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Posts: 99 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 23:15 Sorry a little off topic, but does anyone really love it when Tara says Willow its sounds so, i dont know.....cuteIP: Logged |
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Posts: 4181 Registered: Sep 2000 | posted June 25, 2001 23:16 I know. When she says it in TIIT, it's all out of breath and sexy. Yikes!IP: Logged |
Shaniezak Tara Ass
Posts: 636 Registered: Apr 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 23:20 *covers face with hands*Okay. Still having so much trouble with that acronym, but . . . Oh, what I'd do to have that big grin and sexy voice saying my name on the other side of a door when I knock . . . IP: Logged |
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Posts: 99 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 23:28 All together now *SIGH*IP: Logged |
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Posts: 18 Registered: May 2001 | posted June 26, 2001 12:16 quote: Originally posted by Rane: umm, *i am you know... yours*... isn't that an i love you is a jossonian way?
The "I am you know...yours" line is what I had to think of too when reading the beginning of this thread. Tara doesn´t have to say "I love you" to Willow because she has said it all with this one line when they weren´t even a couple yet. I think that we from then on were all completely convinced that Tara actually loves Willow. By doing this, Tara has shown a lot of courage. Nevertheless, I think she has said it to Willow many times. Maybe the writers felt the need to show Willow saying it because they wanted to convince all the viewers who still doubted her feelings for Tara. What strikes me though is that although Willow has said it in "The Body", the fight in "Tough Love" shows that Tara still has doubts. Oh, I almost forgot: *SIGH*!!!
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Posts: 11 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 26, 2001 14:20 Tara is more of an actions gal rather than a words one, don'tya think? Willow is the vocab chick of the duo. It's starting to change, but it's a residue of Tara's shyness i think. It's hard to go from a no body to someones everything quickly you know? Am i making any sense? Probably not, but hey! And you don't need to hear Tara tell Willow that she loves her, it's so obvious! Pretty much up there with shovel-in-face for sheer blantentness i think! You just gotta focus on W/T and their moments together, look at the way Tara looks at Will when she doesn't think that she is looking, and the way that Tara was the strong one in 'The Body'. Even before that, her love was obvious. "I am you know." "What?" "Yours." See? Feel the love!  IP: Logged |
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Posts: 31 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 26, 2001 15:20 What can you say? They are just so darn cute!!!!!!!!!IP: Logged |
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Posts: 15 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 26, 2001 15:43 ok... i think tara probably *has* said "i love you" because i don't think the relationship would be as strong if she hadn't. i mean, i know the words don't mean everything... but i do think that actually voicing how you feel adds a lot of strength to a relationship... and willow and tara's relationship is very strong - look how they survived the whole "tara's insane!" thing! that was amazing.i do think i know why they haven't said it on screen though. and it's super simple, really (doesn't rule out me being wrong though) and someone else may have said this... i may not have been reading the other replies closely enough. but joss held out on the kiss for so long because he didn't want it to be seen as a plot device. he wanted it to be natural, something that *had* to happen, rather than just for the ratings. and he succeeded. so i think that willow and tara haven't had the whole "i love u!" "i love you too!" big scene because it hasn't been necessary, and joss doesn't want people to think that he's just cashing in on the lesbian love thing. maybe i'm wrong... but i think that this hugely important expression of their love for each other will be handled as beautifully as the kiss was - as and when joss thinks it's time. IP: Logged |
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Posts: 240 Registered: Mar 2001 | posted June 26, 2001 16:11 In mind I have no doubt that Tara has said the magic words to her in private. Tara's love for Willow is evident all around, I have seen it in the way she looks at Willow. (Just watch them in The Body) Their relationship is just so beautiful, I love them so much. Yes I would love to hear Tara whisper those words to Willow on screen. I am however content that off screen Tara has said to Willow that she loves her. I know I'm just a old romantic, but I'm happy. Those two are just so perfect together.
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Posts: 56 Registered: Apr 2001 | posted June 26, 2001 20:52 I think it's much more romantic, not to mention better writing and better television entertainment, to say something that's not "I love you" that still means I love you, i.e. the "I am you know....yours." To me, that's such a better line than a simple I love you because it says so much more and is so much more original and therefore so much more meaningful. Anyone can say "I love you," but it takes something else, some deeper emotions or something like that, so say, in the beginnings of a relationship that may not even be spoken of, "I am you know...yours."IP: Logged |
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Registered: Jan 2001 posted June 25, 2001 16:26
No she is not afraid to say it. She may have her insecurities or doubts, but loving Willow is not one of them. I am sure she has said it many times in private. We simply have not been shown that, as we have not been shown many other things they do in private. 
However, what we *have* been shown can leave no doubt as to the complete and unconditional love they have for each other.
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Posts: 53 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 17:02 Tara has told Willow in private, I think that one is a given and lets face it you only have to see the way Tara looks at Willow to know that she adores her, and she does look at Willow, a lot! As for her not saying it on screen I suspect the writers are just being evil yet again, and saving it up for some really angsty moment before Tara actually says it out loud for we mere mortals to hear, gotta love Joss (not!) ------------------ I am in thunderous agreement, oh glittering, glistening Glorificus! : Jinx in Tough Love IP: Logged |
Warduke Big Pineapple
Posts: 1142 Registered: Nov 2000 | posted June 25, 2001 17:12 I have no doubt that Tara has told Willow she loves her a million times in private (same for Willow) but it is one of my wishes for the next season...that W/T tell each other "I love you", hopefully more than once  IP: Logged |
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Posts: 19 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 17:32 hey, not to sound all negative, cuz i love em', but.... i'm not so sure tara has said it. i mean, i feel, (know), that she does, but i dont think she has actually said she loves will. i also think will knows it. however, i also thought there was something going on bec/ i couldnt think of a time when tara has used willows name. so i might not have any credit to my name on such topics.... theres my opinion anywayIP: Logged |
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Posts: 2000 Registered: Jan 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 17:37 Well, I think you may find yourself in a minority here. I can assure you that Tara has utterred Willow's name many times, Even when she was brainsucked. Besides that every look and touch conveys the love they share. It would be *extremely* unlikely if she has not already said it out loud. But that's just my opinion.  ------------------
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Naturegal Cool Monster Fighter
Posts: 223 Registered: May 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 17:40 I didn't think it might be an issue until the book "Unseen" when it mentioned that Tara wasn't ready to call it love yet (I'm assuming she means for herself). Of course, a lot of time has passed since then, but I did find it odd that we've only heard Willow say it. They are so deliberate on that show, that it made me wonder if there was a reason (Tara's insecurities). I have no doubt though that Tara loves Willow in her heart.IP: Logged |
Rane Tara Ass
Posts: 704 Registered: Sep 2000 | posted June 25, 2001 18:08 umm, *i am you know... yours*... isn't that an i love you is a jossonian way?IP: Logged |
The Rose Floating Rose
Posts: 31 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 18:21 Rane, That line should be the answer for anyone who has doubts. If you notice, Willow does not say anything here. She just smiles at her. I would love to know what happens after this scene though. Do not forget to mention the way Tara stares at Willow and her body after she goes to get drinks and the way Faith notices the look in Tara's eyes. Naturegal, The books are not always accurate. I have read just about every Buffy novel out, and there are definitely some discrepancies.
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Posts: 2556 Registered: Sep 2000 | posted June 25, 2001 19:16 I would like to see them say 'I love you' in a way that indicates they've already said it. In a similar way to the method that most people wanted to see the kiss.With the kiss, it was as though it had happened before; therefore was natural and without the whole first kiss label on it. I'd like to see Tara say something along the lines of "Honey, you know I love you but..." or something like that. I'm convinced they've already said it. That Tara's already said it. So no need for big drama. Edited to add: quote: Originally posted by Glory-p3-mrs: i couldnt think of a time when tara has used willows name.
I think you'll notice, if you watch Tough Love again, that Willow's name was the only one that Tara said. In all the confusion she felt, the one person she recognised was Willow. Their love appears in so many ways; it's clear to me that they have a totally romantic relationship in the classic sense (as well as in a real sense), where proclamations and 'I love you's' aren't necessary, because it shines out of them all of the time. "Tara had never felt as good about herself in her life. Willow gave her that gift. And another gift. Tara couldn't quite bring herself to call it love. Not yet. But there was time." ~ Unseen: The Burning [This message has been edited by tommo (edited June 25, 2001).] IP: Logged |
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Posts: 8 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 22:21 mm.. I never noticed that. Maybe Tara will say it more now though after the "being lost" incident and now being her normal self because of Willow saving the day.IP: Logged |
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Posts: 4181 Registered: Sep 2000 | posted June 25, 2001 23:11 Rane beat me to it. I think "I am you know... yours" is deeper than an I love you in some ways. I am sure Tara has said it privately. Though I would like to hear her say it.Tara has said Willow's name many times. In fact, the first time I recall is The in Team when Willow comes back to Tara apologizing for ditching her and going out to hang with the scoobies. Tara opens the door and says, "willow." IP: Logged |
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Posts: 99 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 23:15 Sorry a little off topic, but does anyone really love it when Tara says Willow its sounds so, i dont know.....cuteIP: Logged |
xita Ms. Moderator Fantastico
Posts: 4181 Registered: Sep 2000 | posted June 25, 2001 23:16 I know. When she says it in TIIT, it's all out of breath and sexy. Yikes!IP: Logged |
Shaniezak Tara Ass
Posts: 636 Registered: Apr 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 23:20 *covers face with hands*Okay. Still having so much trouble with that acronym, but . . . Oh, what I'd do to have that big grin and sexy voice saying my name on the other side of a door when I knock . . . IP: Logged |
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Posts: 99 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 23:28 All together now *SIGH*IP: Logged |
ellenfan Blessed Wannabe
Posts: 18 Registered: May 2001 | posted June 26, 2001 12:16 quote: Originally posted by Rane: umm, *i am you know... yours*... isn't that an i love you is a jossonian way?
The "I am you know...yours" line is what I had to think of too when reading the beginning of this thread. Tara doesn´t have to say "I love you" to Willow because she has said it all with this one line when they weren´t even a couple yet. I think that we from then on were all completely convinced that Tara actually loves Willow. By doing this, Tara has shown a lot of courage. Nevertheless, I think she has said it to Willow many times. Maybe the writers felt the need to show Willow saying it because they wanted to convince all the viewers who still doubted her feelings for Tara. What strikes me though is that although Willow has said it in "The Body", the fight in "Tough Love" shows that Tara still has doubts. Oh, I almost forgot: *SIGH*!!!
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taras_girl Blessed Wannabe
Posts: 11 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 26, 2001 14:20 Tara is more of an actions gal rather than a words one, don'tya think? Willow is the vocab chick of the duo. It's starting to change, but it's a residue of Tara's shyness i think. It's hard to go from a no body to someones everything quickly you know? Am i making any sense? Probably not, but hey! And you don't need to hear Tara tell Willow that she loves her, it's so obvious! Pretty much up there with shovel-in-face for sheer blantentness i think! You just gotta focus on W/T and their moments together, look at the way Tara looks at Will when she doesn't think that she is looking, and the way that Tara was the strong one in 'The Body'. Even before that, her love was obvious. "I am you know." "What?" "Yours." See? Feel the love!  IP: Logged |
The Rose Floating Rose
Posts: 31 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 26, 2001 15:20 What can you say? They are just so darn cute!!!!!!!!!IP: Logged |
WiccanBex Blessed Wannabe
Posts: 15 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 26, 2001 15:43 ok... i think tara probably *has* said "i love you" because i don't think the relationship would be as strong if she hadn't. i mean, i know the words don't mean everything... but i do think that actually voicing how you feel adds a lot of strength to a relationship... and willow and tara's relationship is very strong - look how they survived the whole "tara's insane!" thing! that was amazing.i do think i know why they haven't said it on screen though. and it's super simple, really (doesn't rule out me being wrong though) and someone else may have said this... i may not have been reading the other replies closely enough. but joss held out on the kiss for so long because he didn't want it to be seen as a plot device. he wanted it to be natural, something that *had* to happen, rather than just for the ratings. and he succeeded. so i think that willow and tara haven't had the whole "i love u!" "i love you too!" big scene because it hasn't been necessary, and joss doesn't want people to think that he's just cashing in on the lesbian love thing. maybe i'm wrong... but i think that this hugely important expression of their love for each other will be handled as beautifully as the kiss was - as and when joss thinks it's time. IP: Logged |
AngelusUK Cool Monster Fighter
Posts: 240 Registered: Mar 2001 | posted June 26, 2001 16:11 In mind I have no doubt that Tara has said the magic words to her in private. Tara's love for Willow is evident all around, I have seen it in the way she looks at Willow. (Just watch them in The Body) Their relationship is just so beautiful, I love them so much. Yes I would love to hear Tara whisper those words to Willow on screen. I am however content that off screen Tara has said to Willow that she loves her. I know I'm just a old romantic, but I'm happy. Those two are just so perfect together.
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smelly cheese Doll's eye crystal
Posts: 56 Registered: Apr 2001 | posted June 26, 2001 20:52 I think it's much more romantic, not to mention better writing and better television entertainment, to say something that's not "I love you" that still means I love you, i.e. the "I am you know....yours." To me, that's such a better line than a simple I love you because it says so much more and is so much more original and therefore so much more meaningful. Anyone can say "I love you," but it takes something else, some deeper emotions or something like that, so say, in the beginnings of a relationship that may not even be spoken of, "I am you know...yours."IP: Logged |
posted June 25, 2001 16:26 No she is not afraid to say it. She may have her insecurities or doubts, but loving Willow is not one of them. I am sure she has said it many times in private. We simply have not been shown that, as we have not been shown many other things they do in private. 
However, what we *have* been shown can leave no doubt as to the complete and unconditional love they have for each other.
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Posts: 53 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 17:02 Tara has told Willow in private, I think that one is a given and lets face it you only have to see the way Tara looks at Willow to know that she adores her, and she does look at Willow, a lot! As for her not saying it on screen I suspect the writers are just being evil yet again, and saving it up for some really angsty moment before Tara actually says it out loud for we mere mortals to hear, gotta love Joss (not!) ------------------ I am in thunderous agreement, oh glittering, glistening Glorificus! : Jinx in Tough Love IP: Logged |
Warduke Big Pineapple
Posts: 1142 Registered: Nov 2000 | posted June 25, 2001 17:12 I have no doubt that Tara has told Willow she loves her a million times in private (same for Willow) but it is one of my wishes for the next season...that W/T tell each other "I love you", hopefully more than once  IP: Logged |
Glory-p3-mrs Blessed Wannabe
Posts: 19 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 17:32 hey, not to sound all negative, cuz i love em', but.... i'm not so sure tara has said it. i mean, i feel, (know), that she does, but i dont think she has actually said she loves will. i also think will knows it. however, i also thought there was something going on bec/ i couldnt think of a time when tara has used willows name. so i might not have any credit to my name on such topics.... theres my opinion anywayIP: Logged |
Dr.G Gay Now!
Posts: 2000 Registered: Jan 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 17:37 Well, I think you may find yourself in a minority here. I can assure you that Tara has utterred Willow's name many times, Even when she was brainsucked. Besides that every look and touch conveys the love they share. It would be *extremely* unlikely if she has not already said it out loud. But that's just my opinion.  ------------------
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Naturegal Cool Monster Fighter
Posts: 223 Registered: May 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 17:40 I didn't think it might be an issue until the book "Unseen" when it mentioned that Tara wasn't ready to call it love yet (I'm assuming she means for herself). Of course, a lot of time has passed since then, but I did find it odd that we've only heard Willow say it. They are so deliberate on that show, that it made me wonder if there was a reason (Tara's insecurities). I have no doubt though that Tara loves Willow in her heart.IP: Logged |
Rane Tara Ass
Posts: 704 Registered: Sep 2000 | posted June 25, 2001 18:08 umm, *i am you know... yours*... isn't that an i love you is a jossonian way?IP: Logged |
The Rose Floating Rose
Posts: 31 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 18:21 Rane, That line should be the answer for anyone who has doubts. If you notice, Willow does not say anything here. She just smiles at her. I would love to know what happens after this scene though. Do not forget to mention the way Tara stares at Willow and her body after she goes to get drinks and the way Faith notices the look in Tara's eyes. Naturegal, The books are not always accurate. I have read just about every Buffy novel out, and there are definitely some discrepancies.
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Posts: 2556 Registered: Sep 2000 | posted June 25, 2001 19:16 I would like to see them say 'I love you' in a way that indicates they've already said it. In a similar way to the method that most people wanted to see the kiss.With the kiss, it was as though it had happened before; therefore was natural and without the whole first kiss label on it. I'd like to see Tara say something along the lines of "Honey, you know I love you but..." or something like that. I'm convinced they've already said it. That Tara's already said it. So no need for big drama. Edited to add: quote: Originally posted by Glory-p3-mrs: i couldnt think of a time when tara has used willows name.
I think you'll notice, if you watch Tough Love again, that Willow's name was the only one that Tara said. In all the confusion she felt, the one person she recognised was Willow. Their love appears in so many ways; it's clear to me that they have a totally romantic relationship in the classic sense (as well as in a real sense), where proclamations and 'I love you's' aren't necessary, because it shines out of them all of the time. "Tara had never felt as good about herself in her life. Willow gave her that gift. And another gift. Tara couldn't quite bring herself to call it love. Not yet. But there was time." ~ Unseen: The Burning [This message has been edited by tommo (edited June 25, 2001).] IP: Logged |
anonymous girl Blessed Wannabe
Posts: 8 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 22:21 mm.. I never noticed that. Maybe Tara will say it more now though after the "being lost" incident and now being her normal self because of Willow saving the day.IP: Logged |
xita Ms. Moderator Fantastico
Posts: 4181 Registered: Sep 2000 | posted June 25, 2001 23:11 Rane beat me to it. I think "I am you know... yours" is deeper than an I love you in some ways. I am sure Tara has said it privately. Though I would like to hear her say it.Tara has said Willow's name many times. In fact, the first time I recall is The in Team when Willow comes back to Tara apologizing for ditching her and going out to hang with the scoobies. Tara opens the door and says, "willow." IP: Logged |
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Posts: 99 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 23:15 Sorry a little off topic, but does anyone really love it when Tara says Willow its sounds so, i dont know.....cuteIP: Logged |
xita Ms. Moderator Fantastico
Posts: 4181 Registered: Sep 2000 | posted June 25, 2001 23:16 I know. When she says it in TIIT, it's all out of breath and sexy. Yikes!IP: Logged |
Shaniezak Tara Ass
Posts: 636 Registered: Apr 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 23:20 *covers face with hands*Okay. Still having so much trouble with that acronym, but . . . Oh, what I'd do to have that big grin and sexy voice saying my name on the other side of a door when I knock . . . IP: Logged |
DISASTERAREA Doll's eye crystal
Posts: 99 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 25, 2001 23:28 All together now *SIGH*IP: Logged |
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Posts: 18 Registered: May 2001 | posted June 26, 2001 12:16 quote: Originally posted by Rane: umm, *i am you know... yours*... isn't that an i love you is a jossonian way?
The "I am you know...yours" line is what I had to think of too when reading the beginning of this thread. Tara doesn´t have to say "I love you" to Willow because she has said it all with this one line when they weren´t even a couple yet. I think that we from then on were all completely convinced that Tara actually loves Willow. By doing this, Tara has shown a lot of courage. Nevertheless, I think she has said it to Willow many times. Maybe the writers felt the need to show Willow saying it because they wanted to convince all the viewers who still doubted her feelings for Tara. What strikes me though is that although Willow has said it in "The Body", the fight in "Tough Love" shows that Tara still has doubts. Oh, I almost forgot: *SIGH*!!!
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Posts: 11 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 26, 2001 14:20 Tara is more of an actions gal rather than a words one, don'tya think? Willow is the vocab chick of the duo. It's starting to change, but it's a residue of Tara's shyness i think. It's hard to go from a no body to someones everything quickly you know? Am i making any sense? Probably not, but hey! And you don't need to hear Tara tell Willow that she loves her, it's so obvious! Pretty much up there with shovel-in-face for sheer blantentness i think! You just gotta focus on W/T and their moments together, look at the way Tara looks at Will when she doesn't think that she is looking, and the way that Tara was the strong one in 'The Body'. Even before that, her love was obvious. "I am you know." "What?" "Yours." See? Feel the love!  IP: Logged |
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Posts: 15 Registered: Jun 2001 | posted June 26, 2001 15:43 ok... i think tara probably *has* said "i love you" because i don't think the relationship would be as strong if she hadn't. i mean, i know the words don't mean everything... but i do think that actually voicing how you feel adds a lot of strength to a relationship... and willow and tara's relationship is very strong - look how they survived the whole "tara's insane!" thing! that was amazing.i do think i know why they haven't said it on screen though. and it's super simple, really (doesn't rule out me being wrong though) and someone else may have said this... i may not have been reading the other replies closely enough. but joss held out on the kiss for so long because he didn't want it to be seen as a plot device. he wanted it to be natural, something that *had* to happen, rather than just for the ratings. and he succeeded. so i think that willow and tara haven't had the whole "i love u!" "i love you too!" big scene because it hasn't been necessary, and joss doesn't want people to think that he's just cashing in on the lesbian love thing. maybe i'm wrong... but i think that this hugely important expression of their love for each other will be handled as beautifully as the kiss was - as and when joss thinks it's time. IP: Logged |
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Posts: 240 Registered: Mar 2001 | posted June 26, 2001 16:11 In mind I have no doubt that Tara has said the magic words to her in private. Tara's love for Willow is evident all around, I have seen it in the way she looks at Willow. (Just watch them in The Body) Their relationship is just so beautiful, I love them so much. Yes I would love to hear Tara whisper those words to Willow on screen. I am however content that off screen Tara has said to Willow that she loves her. I know I'm just a old romantic, but I'm happy. Those two are just so perfect together.
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Posts: 56 Registered: Apr 2001 | posted June 26, 2001 20:52 I think it's much more romantic, not to mention better writing and better television entertainment, to say something that's not "I love you" that still means I love you, i.e. the "I am you know....yours." To me, that's such a better line than a simple I love you because it says so much more and is so much more original and therefore so much more meaningful. Anyone can say "I love you," but it takes something else, some deeper emotions or something like that, so say, in the beginnings of a relationship that may not even be spoken of, "I am you know...yours."IP: Logged |
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Registered: Jun 2001 posted June 25, 2001 17:02
Tara has told Willow in private, I think that one is a given and lets face it you only have to see the way Tara looks at Willow to know that she adores her, and she does look at Willow, a lot! As for her not saying it on screen I suspect the writers are just being evil yet again, and saving it up for some really angsty moment before Tara actually says it out loud for we mere mortals to hear, gotta love Joss (not!)
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posted June 25, 2001 17:02 Tara has told Willow in private, I think that one is a given and lets face it you only have to see the way Tara looks at Willow to know that she adores her, and she does look at Willow, a lot! As for her not saying it on screen I suspect the writers are just being evil yet again, and saving it up for some really angsty moment before Tara actually says it out loud for we mere mortals to hear, gotta love Joss (not!)
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Registered: Nov 2000 posted June 25, 2001 17:12
I have no doubt that Tara has told Willow she loves her a million times in private (same for Willow) but it is one of my wishes for the next season...that W/T tell each other "I love you", hopefully more than once 
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posted June 25, 2001 17:12 I have no doubt that Tara has told Willow she loves her a million times in private (same for Willow) but it is one of my wishes for the next season...that W/T tell each other "I love you", hopefully more than once
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Registered: Jun 2001 posted June 25, 2001 17:32
hey, not to sound all negative, cuz i love em', but.... i'm not so sure tara has said it. i mean, i feel, (know), that she does, but i dont think she has actually said she loves will. i also think will knows it. however, i also thought there was something going on bec/ i couldnt think of a time when tara has used willows name. so i might not have any credit to my name on such topics....
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posted June 25, 2001 17:32 hey, not to sound all negative, cuz i love em', but.... i'm not so sure tara has said it. i mean, i feel, (know), that she does, but i dont think she has actually said she loves will. i also think will knows it. however, i also thought there was something going on bec/ i couldnt think of a time when tara has used willows name. so i might not have any credit to my name on such topics....
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Registered: Jan 2001 posted June 25, 2001 17:37
Well, I think you may find yourself in a minority here. I can assure you that Tara has utterred Willow's name many times, Even when she was brainsucked.
Besides that every look and touch conveys the love they share. It would be *extremely* unlikely if she has not already said it out loud. But that's just my opinion. 
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posted June 25, 2001 17:37 Well, I think you may find yourself in a minority here. I can assure you that Tara has utterred Willow's name many times, Even when she was brainsucked.
Besides that every look and touch conveys the love they share. It would be *extremely* unlikely if she has not already said it out loud. But that's just my opinion. 
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Registered: May 2001 posted June 25, 2001 17:40
I didn't think it might be an issue until the book "Unseen" when it mentioned that Tara wasn't ready to call it love yet (I'm assuming she means for herself). Of course, a lot of time has passed since then, but I did find it odd that we've only heard Willow say it. They are so deliberate on that show, that it made me wonder if there was a reason (Tara's insecurities). I have no doubt though that Tara loves Willow in her heart.IP: Logged
posted June 25, 2001 17:40 I didn't think it might be an issue until the book "Unseen" when it mentioned that Tara wasn't ready to call it love yet (I'm assuming she means for herself). Of course, a lot of time has passed since then, but I did find it odd that we've only heard Willow say it. They are so deliberate on that show, that it made me wonder if there was a reason (Tara's insecurities). I have no doubt though that Tara loves Willow in her heart.IP: LoggedRaneTara Ass
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Registered: Sep 2000 posted June 25, 2001 18:08
umm, *i am you know... yours*... isn't that an i love you is a jossonian way?IP: Logged
posted June 25, 2001 18:08 umm, *i am you know... yours*... isn't that an i love you is a jossonian way?IP: LoggedThe RoseFloating Rose
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Registered: Jun 2001 posted June 25, 2001 18:21
Rane,
That line should be the answer for anyone who
has doubts. If you notice, Willow does not
say anything here. She just smiles at her. I
would love to know what happens after this scene though. Do not forget to mention the way Tara stares at Willow and her body after she goes to get drinks and the way Faith notices the look in Tara's eyes. Naturegal,
The books are not always accurate. I have read just about every Buffy novel out, and there are definitely some discrepancies.
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posted June 25, 2001 18:21 Rane,
That line should be the answer for anyone who
has doubts. If you notice, Willow does not
say anything here. She just smiles at her. I
would love to know what happens after this scene though. Do not forget to mention the way Tara stares at Willow and her body after she goes to get drinks and the way Faith notices the look in Tara's eyes. Naturegal,
The books are not always accurate. I have read just about every Buffy novel out, and there are definitely some discrepancies.
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Registered: Sep 2000 posted June 25, 2001 19:16
I would like to see them say 'I love you' in a way that indicates they've already said it. In a similar way to the method that most people wanted to see the kiss.With the kiss, it was as though it had happened before; therefore was natural and without the whole first kiss label on it.
I'd like to see Tara say something along the lines of "Honey, you know I love you but..." or something like that.
I'm convinced they've already said it. That Tara's already said it. So no need for big drama.
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i couldnt think of a time when tara has used willows name.
I think you'll notice, if you watch Tough Love again, that Willow's name was the only one that Tara said. In all the confusion she felt, the one person she recognised was Willow. Their love appears in so many ways; it's clear to me that they have a totally romantic relationship in the classic sense (as well as in a real sense), where proclamations and 'I love you's' aren't necessary, because it shines out of them all of the time.
"Tara had never felt as good about herself in her life. Willow gave her that gift. And another gift. Tara couldn't quite bring herself to call it love. Not yet. But there was time." ~ Unseen: The Burning
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posted June 25, 2001 19:16 I would like to see them say 'I love you' in a way that indicates they've already said it. In a similar way to the method that most people wanted to see the kiss.With the kiss, it was as though it had happened before; therefore was natural and without the whole first kiss label on it.
I'd like to see Tara say something along the lines of "Honey, you know I love you but..." or something like that.
I'm convinced they've already said it. That Tara's already said it. So no need for big drama.
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Originally posted by Glory-p3-mrs:
i couldnt think of a time when tara has used willows name.
I think you'll notice, if you watch Tough Love again, that Willow's name was the only one that Tara said. In all the confusion she felt, the one person she recognised was Willow. Their love appears in so many ways; it's clear to me that they have a totally romantic relationship in the classic sense (as well as in a real sense), where proclamations and 'I love you's' aren't necessary, because it shines out of them all of the time.
"Tara had never felt as good about herself in her life. Willow gave her that gift. And another gift. Tara couldn't quite bring herself to call it love. Not yet. But there was time." ~ Unseen: The Burning
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mm.. I never noticed that. Maybe Tara will say it more now though after the "being lost" incident and now being her normal self because of Willow saving the day.IP: Logged
posted June 25, 2001 22:21 mm.. I never noticed that. Maybe Tara will say it more now though after the "being lost" incident and now being her normal self because of Willow saving the day.IP: LoggedxitaMs. Moderator
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Fantastico posted June 25, 2001 23:11
Rane beat me to it. I think "I am you know... yours" is deeper than an I love you in some ways. I am sure Tara has said it privately. Though I would like to hear her say it.Tara has said Willow's name many times. In fact, the first time I recall is The in Team when Willow comes back to Tara apologizing for ditching her and going out to hang with the scoobies. Tara opens the door and says, "willow."
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posted June 25, 2001 23:11 Rane beat me to it. I think "I am you know... yours" is deeper than an I love you in some ways. I am sure Tara has said it privately. Though I would like to hear her say it.Tara has said Willow's name many times. In fact, the first time I recall is The in Team when Willow comes back to Tara apologizing for ditching her and going out to hang with the scoobies. Tara opens the door and says, "willow."
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Sorry a little off topic, but does anyone really love it when Tara says Willow its sounds so, i dont know.....cuteIP: Logged
posted June 25, 2001 23:15 Sorry a little off topic, but does anyone really love it when Tara says Willow its sounds so, i dont know.....cuteIP: LoggedxitaMs. Moderator
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Fantastico posted June 25, 2001 23:16
I know. When she says it in TIIT, it's all out of breath and sexy. Yikes!IP: Logged
posted June 25, 2001 23:16 I know. When she says it in TIIT, it's all out of breath and sexy. Yikes!IP: LoggedShaniezakTara Ass
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Registered: Apr 2001 posted June 25, 2001 23:20
*covers face with hands*Okay. Still having so much trouble with that acronym, but . . .
Oh, what I'd do to have that big grin and sexy voice saying my name on the other side of a door when I knock . . .
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posted June 25, 2001 23:20 *covers face with hands*Okay. Still having so much trouble with that acronym, but . . .
Oh, what I'd do to have that big grin and sexy voice saying my name on the other side of a door when I knock . . .
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posted June 25, 2001 23:28 All together now *SIGH*IP: LoggedellenfanBlessed Wannabe
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Registered: May 2001 posted June 26, 2001 12:16
quote:
Originally posted by Rane:
umm, *i am you know... yours*... isn't that an i love you is a jossonian way?
The "I am you know...yours" line is what I had to think of too when reading the beginning of this thread. Tara doesn´t have to say "I love you" to Willow because she has said it all with this one line when they weren´t even a couple yet. I think that we from then on were all completely convinced that Tara actually loves Willow. By doing this, Tara has shown a lot of courage.
Nevertheless, I think she has said it to Willow many times. Maybe the writers felt the need to show Willow saying it because they wanted to convince all the viewers who still doubted her feelings for Tara. What strikes me though is that although Willow has said it in "The Body", the fight in "Tough Love" shows that Tara still has doubts.
Oh, I almost forgot: *SIGH*!!!
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posted June 26, 2001 12:16 quote:
Originally posted by Rane:
umm, *i am you know... yours*... isn't that an i love you is a jossonian way?
The "I am you know...yours" line is what I had to think of too when reading the beginning of this thread. Tara doesn´t have to say "I love you" to Willow because she has said it all with this one line when they weren´t even a couple yet. I think that we from then on were all completely convinced that Tara actually loves Willow. By doing this, Tara has shown a lot of courage.
Nevertheless, I think she has said it to Willow many times. Maybe the writers felt the need to show Willow saying it because they wanted to convince all the viewers who still doubted her feelings for Tara. What strikes me though is that although Willow has said it in "The Body", the fight in "Tough Love" shows that Tara still has doubts.
Oh, I almost forgot: *SIGH*!!!
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Registered: Jun 2001 posted June 26, 2001 14:20
Tara is more of an actions gal rather than a words one, don'tya think? Willow is the vocab chick of the duo. It's starting to change, but it's a residue of Tara's shyness i think. It's hard to go from a no body to someones everything quickly you know? Am i making any sense? Probably not, but hey! And you don't need to hear Tara tell Willow that she loves her, it's so obvious! Pretty much up there with shovel-in-face for sheer blantentness i think! You just gotta focus on W/T and their moments together, look at the way Tara looks at Will when she doesn't think that she is looking, and the way that Tara was the strong one in 'The Body'. Even before that, her love was obvious. "I am you know." "What?" "Yours." See? Feel the love! 
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posted June 26, 2001 14:20 Tara is more of an actions gal rather than a words one, don'tya think? Willow is the vocab chick of the duo. It's starting to change, but it's a residue of Tara's shyness i think. It's hard to go from a no body to someones everything quickly you know? Am i making any sense? Probably not, but hey! And you don't need to hear Tara tell Willow that she loves her, it's so obvious! Pretty much up there with shovel-in-face for sheer blantentness i think! You just gotta focus on W/T and their moments together, look at the way Tara looks at Will when she doesn't think that she is looking, and the way that Tara was the strong one in 'The Body'. Even before that, her love was obvious. "I am you know." "What?" "Yours." See? Feel the love!
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What can you say? They are just so darn cute!!!!!!!!!IP: Logged
posted June 26, 2001 15:20 What can you say? They are just so darn cute!!!!!!!!!IP: LoggedWiccanBexBlessed Wannabe
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Registered: Jun 2001 posted June 26, 2001 15:43
ok... i think tara probably *has* said "i love you" because i don't think the relationship would be as strong if she hadn't. i mean, i know the words don't mean everything... but i do think that actually voicing how you feel adds a lot of strength to a relationship... and willow and tara's relationship is very strong - look how they survived the whole "tara's insane!" thing! that was amazing.i do think i know why they haven't said it on screen though. and it's super simple, really (doesn't rule out me being wrong though) and someone else may have said this... i may not have been reading the other replies closely enough.
but joss held out on the kiss for so long because he didn't want it to be seen as a plot device. he wanted it to be natural, something that *had* to happen, rather than just for the ratings. and he succeeded.
so i think that willow and tara haven't had the whole "i love u!" "i love you too!" big scene because it hasn't been necessary, and joss doesn't want people to think that he's just cashing in on the lesbian love thing.
maybe i'm wrong... but i think that this hugely important expression of their love for each other will be handled as beautifully as the kiss was - as and when joss thinks it's time.
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posted June 26, 2001 15:43 ok... i think tara probably *has* said "i love you" because i don't think the relationship would be as strong if she hadn't. i mean, i know the words don't mean everything... but i do think that actually voicing how you feel adds a lot of strength to a relationship... and willow and tara's relationship is very strong - look how they survived the whole "tara's insane!" thing! that was amazing.i do think i know why they haven't said it on screen though. and it's super simple, really (doesn't rule out me being wrong though) and someone else may have said this... i may not have been reading the other replies closely enough.
but joss held out on the kiss for so long because he didn't want it to be seen as a plot device. he wanted it to be natural, something that *had* to happen, rather than just for the ratings. and he succeeded.
so i think that willow and tara haven't had the whole "i love u!" "i love you too!" big scene because it hasn't been necessary, and joss doesn't want people to think that he's just cashing in on the lesbian love thing.
maybe i'm wrong... but i think that this hugely important expression of their love for each other will be handled as beautifully as the kiss was - as and when joss thinks it's time.
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Registered: Mar 2001 posted June 26, 2001 16:11
In mind I have no doubt that Tara has said the magic words to her in private. Tara's love for Willow is evident all around, I have seen it in the way she looks at Willow. (Just watch them in The Body) Their relationship is just so beautiful, I love them so much. Yes I would love to hear Tara whisper those words to Willow on screen. I am however content that off screen Tara has said to Willow that she loves her.
I know I'm just a old romantic, but I'm happy. Those two are just so perfect together.
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posted June 26, 2001 16:11 In mind I have no doubt that Tara has said the magic words to her in private. Tara's love for Willow is evident all around, I have seen it in the way she looks at Willow. (Just watch them in The Body) Their relationship is just so beautiful, I love them so much. Yes I would love to hear Tara whisper those words to Willow on screen. I am however content that off screen Tara has said to Willow that she loves her.
I know I'm just a old romantic, but I'm happy. Those two are just so perfect together.
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Registered: Apr 2001 posted June 26, 2001 20:52
I think it's much more romantic, not to mention better writing and better television entertainment, to say something that's not "I love you" that still means I love you, i.e. the "I am you know....yours." To me, that's such a better line than a simple I love you because it says so much more and is so much more original and therefore so much more meaningful. Anyone can say "I love you," but it takes something else, some deeper emotions or something like that, so say, in the beginnings of a relationship that may not even be spoken of, "I am you know...yours."IP: Logged
posted June 26, 2001 20:52 I think it's much more romantic, not to mention better writing and better television entertainment, to say something that's not "I love you" that still means I love you, i.e. the "I am you know....yours." To me, that's such a better line than a simple I love you because it says so much more and is so much more original and therefore so much more meaningful. Anyone can say "I love you," but it takes something else, some deeper emotions or something like that, so say, in the beginnings of a relationship that may not even be spoken of, "I am you know...yours."